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Kinky One-Upmanship

You know the type.  Anything you can do, I can do better.  Sometimes one of these types calls me and when they do, it always leads to an epic session.  This is true for any kind of fetish.

When you are a Type A, overachiever, you cannot set it aside during sexual activities.  Impossible.  If anything, it kicks that need to be better into high gear.  Look out!

Sissy Shopping

One of my favorite sissies, Tabetha, adores shopping for sissy clothes to wear.  She especially enjoys Victoria’s Secret.  Tabetha started out by modeling her newest pair of 7 inch stilettos for me, then began modeling entire outfits.  At the end of 7 years of sessions together, Tabetha was hauling out bags of new clothing, and boxes of heels; modeling one outfit after another.

This would sometimes go on for over an hour.  She ran out of time before she could show me everything.  It was so much fun.  Mind spinning, but a lot of fun.  She is the ultimate sissy shopper.

Ride It Cowboy

I was introduced to another caller by a Mistress friend.  This caller, who shall remain nameless, did cam sessions with the most enormous black dildo I have ever seen.  It was about 18 inches long, and a good 4 inches across.  Wow!!  This caller worked their way up to that by sucking and riding one butt plug after another.  Then they pulled out that monster dick, stood it firmly on the floor, sat on it and let gravity and lube help them take that huge dildo in…inch by inch.  He got it all the way in and then rode it like a cowboy in a rodeo going for big money.  Whoa!!!

Through the years I have seen lots of callers insert lots of items, but that monster dildo was the ultimate.  HUGE.

Epic Cum Eating

This week, my cum craver D finally had the 60 load, two Mistress session he has been fantasizing about for months.  You read that right…60 loads!   I asked him to show it to us and it filled up a large container nicely.  He could have put his fist in that cum and been immersed over his wrist.

Miss Delia was the other Mistress, per D’s request.  Since both of us enjoy getting creative with cum eating, this session was a lot of fun.  D likes to push his own boundaries.  I ask him to pour a small amount of cum over his head and he pours two cups of it.  That cum facial was hilarious and amazing!  D was covered in cum head to toe.  We made sure of that.  Now he is talking about having a 200 load blowout.  See?  Topping his own record!

Confessing Your Secrets

I want to hear about your ultimate session.  The time you pushed yourself further than ever before.  The session when you did something that shocked you and the Mistress.  And if that has not yet happened for you, it is time to spill your secrets and tell me what you long to do.

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Double Mistress Celebration

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Do You Know What is Coming Up?

It very well may be your erection.  I know how your mind works.  But another important occasion is fast approaching.  My annual double celebration.

This is the time of year when I celebrate my anniversary here at LDW and then my birthday.  I like to wrap that all into one blow out.  Do you know how many years I have been rocking the phone lines here?

LDW Anniversary

Consider yourself tormented by a prick tease, or think of it as delayed gratification, but I am not going to tell you how many years I have been here.  You are going to tell me.  Everyone who leaves a comment with the correct number of years will win a free erotic audio by moi.  More fun this way!

Some of you have been calling me since my first week here.  For you, this will be so easy.  Others will have to dig a bit.  Oooh…it’s a Miss Violet Treasure Hunt!  Today is my actual LDW anniversary.  Woohoo!!

Birthday Time

You amaze me.  Every year, you make my birthday stupendous.  Already presents are arriving.  Thank you to little j for the designer purse.  I appreciate the pumps I got from you, “S”.  Today an email arrived with an e-gift card for clothing from my favorite catalog.  Thank you, twisted m.  I feel like a spoiled princess.

A Mistress can be a complicated creature.  I know I am.  You can look at the items on my wish list and see that I have depth and a very wide range of interests.  I am aware that some of you peruse my list regularly.  You really enjoy that.

Think Outside the Box

Some of you are asking what I would like for my birthday and I know that not everyone is in a position to send a gift.  There are other ways to show me that you are thinking of me and want to acknowledge my double celebration.

Here are a few ideas that others have actually done:

  • Wear a tux and do a Skype call with me.  I do have a fondness for a man in a tux.
  • Sing me a lovely song
  • Write me a poem
  • Leave a sweet comment on my blog post
  • Write a glowing review of your last session with me at “Rate My Call”
  • Create something artistic and email me a pic of it

I am far from shallow and appreciate heart-felt gestures.  Surprise me, as long as it is a good surprise I will enjoy it.  Pleasing your Mistress is not difficult.

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Become My CFNM Slave

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My Friends Love a Good CFNM Party

Clothes Off

Not all CFNM involves blatant humiliation, but I have come to believe that humiliation is involved on some level.  You already know that you love taking all of your clothes off and being naked in front of a fully dressed woman, or group of women.  Great!  You have what it takes to become my CFNM (clothed female naked male) slave.

Understand that once we have discussed your limits and you present your naked self to me, I  will put you to the test.  Depending on your desires, the scene may begin with just you and I.  Me wearing a form fitting business skirt, a silk blouse, thigh high stockings, leather pumps, a leather belt, with my hair down long.

You Fill a Need

While it is fun and amusing to have you naked and humiliated in the room, I like you to serve another purpose.  This purpose generally adds to the humiliation and certainly puts you off center, not knowing what will happen next.

I may instruct you to stand on a platform in the center of the room in a pose that pleases me.  You become living art; there for my guests to look at, talk about, touch, tease.  All of this while you stay perfectly still in the pose assigned to you.

Or I may pose you standing in the center of my dining room table.  When it is time for dinner, my female guests gather around the table, fully dressed, looking up at your completely naked form.  They make ribald remarks, flash a nipple to make your hard cock even more rigid, laugh and whisper.  You stay there until dinner is over and I release you.

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Naked Forever

Something I know you will be both terrified and thrilled to hear is that I will keep you naked for the rest of your life.  All of your man clothes have been gathered and disposed of.  Your closet and dresser are empty.  No need to ever wear clothes again.  Come on, you know exhibitionism is your thrill.

I do mean ever.  You will be going to parties at friend’s homes with me…naked.  You will be taken on walks around the park…naked in public!  Prepare yourself to do housework and yardwork naked.  My predominantly female neighborhood knows all about you and is expecting to see you out and about, buck ass naked.  If you try to sneak and put on clothing, they will rat you out.

That Thrilling Mix

I have spoken about this before.  There is a perfect mix of humiliation, terror, and excitement that fuels a good CFNM slave onward.  It makes you desire more and more.  Don’t worry.  I have many dominant female friends and we have formed a wonderful CFNM club.  We hold a CFNM party weekly.  I will instruct my friends to touch you as they will.  They will stroke your cock, rub your ass, fondle your balls, tease your nipples.  And later…I will insist that you cum hard for their viewing pleasure.

You will be serving at some of these friend’s parties as well.  For that time period, I give the hostess permission to treat you like she owns you.  And there is nothing you can do about it.  You are property.  My naked property.  Tell me…are you ready to become my CFNM slave?

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The Mysterious 7th Sense

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That Special Sense

You know about the five traditional senses:  sight, hearing, taste, smell and touch.  We all have them.  We all use them daily.  Then there is the sixth sense, intuition.  Sure…debates continue over the sixth sense, but it is there.

This post is about the mysterious 7th sense.  That is the special sense that a Mistress has about her submissive/slave/sissy.  It goes beyond mere intuition, but is definitely part of control and domination.

The Mysterious 7th Sense

I am convinced that this sense develops due to the incredibly close bond that exists between a Mistress and her sub/slave/sissy.  This connection runs deep and expands out in many directions.

Due to this special sense, Mistress knows more about you than you may realize.  She may know more about you than you even want her to.  Too bad.  Mistress knows all which means you are completely controlled by Mistress.

Details About This

This came up last week when I was talking with Tinkerbell Tammy, who I really like.  She has a Mistress wife, but her role in that relationship is not exactly what she would like it to be.  Sometimes Tinkerbell Tammy becomes sad and frustrated.  She mentioned to me how her Mistress wife knows when Tinkerbell Tammy lies to her.

I laughed at this, but then let her know that I have that same ability with my personal houseboys, and a good number of you reading this post right now.  Yes…I do know when you lie to me.  I do know when you are hiding something.  Getting nervous?  Good!

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This Can Be Good

There is a flip side to this.  When Mistress is in session with you and you beg her to stop; whine, plead, or cry, she knows why no means yes.  Whether you are getting a bare bottom spanking, being flogged, or tickle tortured…Mistress knows what you truly want and do not want.

This means that even if you cannot bear to admit your desires, Mistress is aware of them.  Mistress will make sure your needs are met.  Sometimes you will wait for that to happen, as it can be a good idea to surprise you with something you have wanted to try or experience.  You don’t have so much time to get nervous and chicken out.  Not going to happen!

Accept It

There are many things that you, as a submissive, have no control over.  Add this mysterious 7th sense to that list.  Accept that your Mistress has this ability and will use it as needed.

Tell me about your experiences with a Mistress, or Master, and this special 7th sense.

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Intimate Secrets About Miss Violet

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You Want to Know

You ask me all sorts of questions about my intimate secrets.  When you ask me one intimate question, I know that there are many others bubbling around in your mind.  You want to ask them, but do not want to offend me.

This is your opportunity to learn more about me.  I will be revealing information I have never written about in my blogs.  Most of this information is in response to your questions.

Close To My Body

My favorite style of panty is a French cut bikini.  I like how the high cut of the sides further lengthens my already long legs.  Plus I find they are very comfortable and look sexy.  I have this style of panty is many fabrics and colors.  My favorites are silk or stretch lace.  I am a fan of highly feminine lingerie, including my panties.

When it comes to bras, I do not have a favorite style.  I choose my bra based on what I am wearing that day.  If my top or dress is low cut, I will wear an underwire, demi cup bra.  They push my breasts up nicely so they form two tempting mounds above the neckline of my top.  If I am planning an active day, I will wear a cute sports bra in a pretty color.  With sports bras, I like them to zip up the front.  My collection of bras is highly varied.  That drawer is like a cornucopia of bra delights.

Intimate Secrets

My scent of choice is Poeme by Lancome.  It is soft, sensual and unique.  That is the perfume I wear most often.  I find that layering my scent helps it last longer.  So I start with Poeme body lotion, then the powder, lastly a spray of the perfume on my stomach, and a touch of perfumed lotion on my arms.  I walk in a gentle mist of enticing scent.  Heads do turn.

This American Mistress is a girly girl Mistress I am, I have a fondness for glitter and sparkle.  That is why I always have a dangling faceted gem hanging from my navel piercing.  You could also see me with glittery blush, eyeshadow and definitely lipgloss!  Confession time…I have glittery hair spray, and glitter body lotion too.  My toenails generally sport a lovely color with matching glitter coat over it.

What You Really Want to Know

I am not completely shaved.  To me, that is a look only appropriate for prepubescents.  Since I am a grown woman, I do have some pubic hair.  I keep it trimmed and clipped.  For years, I had a landing pad.  Recently, on a lark, I got a professional waxing and now I sport a heart shaped patch.  So pretty!

No matter how many of your questions I answer, there are always more.  This is your opportunity, outside of a session, to ask me.  I will respond and if please me with the manner you ask…I will probably answer your question right here on this blog.  Pleasing your Mistress is huge!

Everyone has dirty little secrets.  Some of mine are dirtier than others.  Now you know some of my intimate secrets.  There are more.  Watch for Part II to this post.

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How You Become Feminized

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Gradual or Poof!

First of all, you, like every sissy, have your own fantasy of how you become feminized.  Some see it as a process that Mistress leads them through gradually.  Others envision a magical transformation with instant results.

Let’s you and I look at some of the options for . . . → Read More: How You Become Feminized

The Reality of Being Owned

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The Fantasies

You may be one of the callers who has told me how badly you want to be owned.  Perhaps you have fantasies of how that would play out.  Often I hear things like, “I want to be put in shackles, and left in a basement on a mattress . . . → Read More: The Reality of Being Owned

What Makes a Female Superior?

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Into Female Superiority

Since you call this service, there is a good chance that you are into female superiority to some degree.  As a lifestyle Mistress, I am familiar with many of the reasons and fantasies behind this fetish.  Today it crossed my mind that the reasons you like the . . . → Read More: What Makes a Female Superior?

How Small is Your Cock?

Everything is Relative

That is definitely true when it comes to cocks.  I have had men describe their cock as “small”, just to find out that it is 8 inches long later.  Conversely, I have had men with a gherkin in their pants brag to me about their sexual conquests.  Puh-leeze!  So how . . . → Read More: How Small is Your Cock?

Giving You What You Need

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You Need it Bad

I get it.  You have specific needs…desires.  That is what led you to find me in the first place.  You want to have a great first call, so you think to visit my “About Me” page and find out what types of calls I enjoy; . . . → Read More: Giving You What You Need