Miss Violet 800-601-6975
It’s Not a New Attitude
This is the same attitude I developed years ago when I discovered BDSM. It is an attitude that I know you would recognize. The Mistress Attitude. It can be so subtle that people outside of the scene would not recognize it for what it is. They might think I am a bossy woman, demanding, or spoiled.
But you would meet me, or talk with me on the phone, and very quickly know that I am a Mistress. I am used to being in control and and being obeyed. It is part of what makes you want to submit to me.
Do not expect me to be your girlfriend, or to cater to your whims. That is not how the D/s dynamic works. I am in charge. I set the rules. And once you agree to be mine, knowing my rules, there is no negotiation to change them.
Understand that I expect one thing from you at all times and that is respect. I give it to you and demand it in return. Start by never hanging up on me. I do not care if you came and you feel “done”. Common courtesy is to say “Thank you, Mistress. Goodnight”. And I expect courtesy beyond what is common.
Mean What You Say
If I ask you what you want to do in your session and you reply, “Whatever you want, Mistress”, be very sure that you mean it. Because I will likely jump on that and say, “Great. I am in the mood for taking you with my largest strap on.” So think before you offer me that kind of latitude, dear submissive.
A smart way to approach me in session is to come with a general idea of what you want to do. It can be something as simple as “cum eating”, or more complex such as “slave training”. I will have a grand time, regardless, because I will be controlling you completely and that is a turn on for me. But it is annoying when you offer me full rein and then take it back.
Topping From the Bottom
I have written about this before. Due to this being distance domination, some level of topping from the bottom is inevitable. But do not lose your head and bark orders at me, push me to jump to a particular activity, or interrupt me constantly to change the direction needlessly.
If the role play or scene we are enjoying goes in a direction you do not like, yes…please do politely stop me and let me know what the problem is. But if I am within the boundaries we agreed on, and it’s just not quite the perfection you had in your head, I will be most annoyed to be stopped again and again in your quest for nebulous perfection. An annoyed Mistress is usually not a good thing. Take heed!
The Real Me
You know that I am friendly, caring, intuitive, and easy to talk with. But what I wrote about above is also a real part of me. It is something you need to be aware of so that our relationship can blossom and deepen. I like us to have a meaningful, “real” relationship. That requires honesty and openness.
Aren’t you glad I opened up and shared my Mistress attitude with you?
Miss Violet 800-601-6975
The Real Story
You have read the story of Goldilocks. What you did not know is that the real story revolves around a very adult topic. It is about finding the right cock. For who? Why, for you, of course! Because anal play is fabulous and not just a fairytale.
You see, Goldilocks did come upon a cottage in the woods. He knocked upon the door and no one answered. You read that right. Goldilocks was actually a male. When no one came to the door, Goldilocks entered the cottage and called, “Hello!”. No answer again.
He wandered through the rooms, intrigued by the seven chairs, the seven bowls and spoons. When he made his way upstairs to the bedroom, Goldilocks found seven beds and, even more interesting, seven cocks stuck to a wall. They were all in a row, about a foot apart.
Goldilocks licked his lips and then noticed a small sign on the wall. When he got closer, he read “Find the one that is just right for you.”. So Goldilocks pulled down his trousers, turned around, bent over and backed onto the first, and smallest, cock. “Oh dear. Way too small.” He moved to the next cock, backed up onto it, and said, “Shucks. This one is too small too.”
Moving on Down the Line
This adventurous, house breaking fellow made his way down the line of cocks. Backing onto each, seeing how it fit, and how it felt. It was not until the fifth cock that Goldilocks said, “This cock is just right!” He happily humped his way to a loud release, which of course alerted the home occupants to his presence.
They returned home to find Goldilocks collapsed in post-orgasmic exhaustion upon the floor of their bedroom. I would like to tell you that they were surprised. But this sort of thing happens far too often in the forest. No real form of entertainment, so the forest dwellers really are hard up for fun. They insisted he pull up his pants, clean up their cocks, and sent him on his way. He was whistling a merry tune because Goldilocks had anal play experience that opened his eyes to new pleasures.
This Cock is Just Right
What is the perfect cock for you? Whether you like to suck cock, or take one inside. Do you prefer them long and thin, average size, or do you want to suck a big cock?
Let’s hear it. You know Mistress loves to hear what does it for you. *wink* Now…we will all live happily ever after.
I credit my caller, Southern Slut, for this idea. It was a comment he made in session that got my creative wheels turning. Look out!
Miss Violet 800-601-6975
Welcome my good friend, Ms Christine. She is guest writing today!
You Want To Be Teased By Your Cocktease
You’ll soon be ready to beg!
And as your Cocktease, I know exactly what you need, my pet. The more I tell you to stroke, the harder your cock gets, the more it drips. And that’s how I know you really want to be teased. You see, I also know that you’re just not thinking straight right now. You were completely clothed, not even horny or excited when you told me you needed a cocktease like me to control your cock, to ration out your orgasms. Now that your cock is throbbing and your balls are aching, you’re begging me to let you cum…but I know you still just want to be teased. You told me so yourself!
You Want To Be Edged
You love those edges, don’t you? Climbing up that mountain of orgasmic bliss and pleasure. Teetering right there on the edge, your cock bobbing in the air. Your mind starts racing and then you don’t even know what you want. Do you want to cum? But doesn’t it feel so much better to just stand there on the edge of orgasm? To let it fade away so you can work it back up…and edge for your Cocktease Mistress again and again!
And You Want Your Cocktease To Deny You
Ultimately, I know all you really want is to be teased, edged… and denied. You don’t want to cum…remember, you told me yourself! You told me, no matter how much you begged, no matter how you pleaded with me, no matter what you said you’d do, that you just wanted to be cockteased, forever and ever. Oh, I know it sounds cruel now, but when we’re done, your hard on has gone away and that sharp pain in your blue balls has faded to a dull ache, you’ll thank me for giving you your wish.
Do you think you’re ready to beg either Miss Violet or Myself? Leave us a comment below letting us know, or better yet… call us for a sexy 2 Mistress call! And thank you to Miss Violet for hosting me today!
Your Phone Sex Mistress Christine
Officially a Dinosaur
As of today, I am officially a dinosaur here at LDW. Today is my 7 year anniversary. Woohoo! That is a long time to be a phone Mistress. Seven years ago today, I signed in for the first time and took my first call. It was a roller-coaster of a ride after that. Though BDSM was a big part of my life, I was not sure how I would feel about being a phone Mistress.
I now know that it is the most creative, energy rushing, fascinating career I can imagine. Lucky me, I get to talk to you. I get to know you as a person, learn about your desires, help fulfill those desires, be here for you when you need someone to talk with, act as your confessor, your girlfriend, and your friend. Thank you for being a part of seven years of mind blasting fun! But this is a double celebration for Mistress.
10 Days of Celebrating
My LDW anniversary is August 18th, and my birthday is August 28th. So I like to celebrate these 10 days in style. Crazy parties, ceremony, fun calls here, singing, dancing, toasting, all of it! I invite you to be a part of the fun. Let’s celebrate together.
As usual, I am likely to be signed in for at least part of my birthday. I would not disappoint you by being absent on such a big day. I know you want to talk with me, say “Happy Birthday”, maybe sing a song to me. There will be spankings. You will be getting them, as you know about my spanking fetish. Every year, my birthday is a crazy fun party, thanks to you. So let’s do it again.
Get Ready for This
When the 28th arrives, I will be 35 and sexy as hell. Does that put me into the beginning of the sexy MILF range? That could be a lot of fun. All sorts of naughty scenarios are dancing around in my head. I always have enjoyed luring younger men into intimate situations. Why stop now?
I know that I am a lot wiser at this age. Experience counts. Not just years, but everything that happens to a person during the course of those years. All of that adds to my ability to engage in conversation on a wide range of topics. My intellect likes to peak the interest of your intellect. I have done a lot, traveled a lot, seen a lot, and learned a lot. One thing I never am is boring.
Are You Ready?
Get your dancing shoes on, chug some Red Bull, and get ready to party. This is going to be a 10 day blow out. Look for new audios on GetGirlie.com and TeaseMania.com. What? You thought I just expected to get gifts and not give something? Ha! Not me at all.
You are already asking me what I want for my birthday. Do not tax your mind about that. I make that so easy for you. If you have not visited my Wish List yet, this is the time to do so. Not only will you see items, in all price ranges, that I would love to have; but you will learn so much about me. Always intriguing. *wink* Let the double celebration for Mistress festivities begin!!!
The girlfriend experience
Hello Ms. Violets fan club! I am always happy to be here as Ms. Violet and I have a few things in common. One…we both are sensual Mistress’s who love to play with our subs. Whether that means feminization, tease and denial, or guided masturbation. Two? We both really enjoy the girlfriend experience type sessions. What does that entail? Oh, its something I think you really would enjoy. A virtual girlfriend! you get all the positives of a GF without the nagging or complications. Imagine having someone as hot and sexy as Ms. Violet or I as your girlfriend. What an experience!
Ms. Violet and I both know that sometimes you need a friendly person to share your day with. A woman who is warm and caring and listens. That is what you get with the girlfriend experience!I know you know that Ms. Violet and I have many long term callers, you are probably one of them! In the long term you develop a phone-sex relationship. you get to know each other. you know that phone sex is more then sex sometimes. Sometimes, no make that many times, you really get to know each other. How perfect for a virtual relationship to build upon!
I know how good Ms. Violet is at listening. She also has a way developing the situation and giving some sound advice. Almost like phone sex therapy! Keep this ism ind next time you have a pressing matter and you need to talk it over with someone you trust!
This is what the girlfriend experience is all about! A wonderful exchange between your online GF is only a phone call away. Plus, who understands you better? you and all your kinkiness?
Ms. Violet and I make for excellent online confidants. I know that for a fact. Thank-you for having me here, Ms.V! If you have her permission, you may check me out at www.thesexytruth.com and after that, visit her wishlist to pamper and spoil her like a good online BF would!
Miss Violet 800-601-6975
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How Sweet It Is
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Discovering My Submissiveness
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Today, Ms Lena is guest writing for my blog. Enjoy what this Mistress has to say!
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