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By Empress Violet, on December 19th, 2011
  Ms Violet 800-601-6975 On the First Day of Christmas
I will be heading out of town. Out of state actually. Early in the morning…hot coffee and bagel in hand. Driving through the chilly desert of Phoenix, headed out on a four day adventure. That will give me a whole lot of time to listen to the newest CD’s some of my wonderful callers have sent me.
Those of you who do not live in the wild West may not know that there are hours of driving time where one might receive no radio signals at all. You read that right. None. I tend to spend that time singing some of my favorite songs, but eventually my vocal cords tire out and I flip on my CD player and groove to the tunes. So thank you pet A and others who have so generously sent me fabulous music from my Wish List.
Back to the Point
Christmas means a whole lot more than presents to me. Though presents can certainly meet a need, put a smile on someone’s face, and joy in the heart. But the real meaning of the holiday season to me is to do good things for people. Especially strangers and those who do not expect it. It can be as simple as letting a man go ahead of me at the post office. I always have a mountain of boxes and there will be a line of people behind me with one little box or a letter. Or, holding the door for an elderly person. Up to sending a whole bunch of gifts to a family I know who are struggling financially and have small children. They will have no idea who that came from. I am their secret Christmas elf. *smile*
Now some of these things are tasks I do regularly, pretty much every day of my life. But I put my kindness and loving hat on more firmly over the holidays. People tend to get stressed and the best way to greet that is with a smile and a nice gesture. I have been greeted with some of those myself of late. From people I encounter in my personal life, and from the exceptional men and sissies who call me here at LDW.
Surprising Your Mistress
I know you appreciate me and the time we share together. You tell me, you tell the world by rating our call (grin!), and a good number of you go a step further and show me. The first amazing gesture that popped into my mind today is a very special gift from my tease toy. He knows that I do energy healing for my family, friends, and others. But I never had a massage table, which makes giving energy healing treatments much easier. I had one on my Wish List for many months and he saw it and sent it to me.
When I found out, I had tears in my eyes. I will be able to help so many more people now and that means so very much to me. So thank you tease toy! Another wonderful gesture was an airline gift certificate to visit my parents in Alabama. That caller knew that I had not been to Alabama in a few years and was missing my parents so very much. He just did that for me and I am still touched so deeply at his kindness. The list could go on and on…that is how incredible my callers are.
Truly Caring
Again, though, it is more than gifts. It is the true concern you wonderful callers show for me as a person. You know that I return that in my concern for you and your life. You cannot get to know a person so well via calls, emails, IMs, and text sessions, and not come to care about them. For me that is impossible.
So I thank you…all of you…for being a part of my life. Thank you for the friendship, devotion, generosity, and caring you send my way on a regular basis. I notice it, I appreciate it, and my heart is so full with the love you give me. I am looking forward to another year of incredible calls, laughter, kinkiness, and fun!
Going Both Ways
I appreciate the time we spend together. Many of us have formed a real relationship and I cherish that. So I enjoy doing special things for you! When it is your birthday, I might send you a special photo birthday card of me, autographed…or sing happy birthday to you in my own style.
At Christmas, you just might find a little token of my esteem in your email. You just never know! But mostly I make sure that you know how much you mean to me. That you are special to me, and that I think of you outside of our sessions. I like you to know that, and to understand that each one of you has a special relationship with me. And each relationship is different. To me…you are as individual as a snowflake…and every bit as beautiful.
Thank you for being a part of my life!
Missing Me
As I mentioned earlier in this posting, I will be gone Christmas Day and for the 3 days after that. I will be back on Thursday, December 29th. This will be an actual vacation. Can you believe it? *laugh* That means I will not have my laptop with me. So…while I am gone, remember that you can:
- See me at Cock Control
- Read about me on my blogs: www.YourKinkAdvisor.com; www.ilovepantyboys.com; www.VanillaTease.com; www.CoachedToEatCum.com; www.TheVoyeurWindow.com; www.PhoneSexForCouples.com
- Hear me at our free audio sites: www.TeaseMania.com; www.GetGirlie.com; and here on this blog
- Learn about me by perusing my Wish List
Here for calls every day through the 24th!
By Empress Violet, on November 26th, 2011
 Ms Violet 800-601-6975 Shedding Some Light
It is always interesting to hear a man tell me about his fetish and then find out that he is keeping it secret from his significant other. I am so used to discussing my sexual preferences with boyfriends, and hearing about theirs. But I know there can be many reasons why a man decides to keep it separate from his primary relationship.
One caller told me, “I mentioned my fascination with wearing panties when we were dating. She did not seem thrilled, so I never brought it up again. I continue to wear panties but live with a fear of being caught cross dressing.” Hmmmm…this kind of situation gets my wheels turning. Maybe we some time to think about it, and read up on panty boys, this woman would have been more open to the fetish. When a person is surprised by a fetish they are unfamiliar with, it can be difficult for them to give much of a response at all. I advised him to bring it up again, but in a playful, lighthearted way.
Oil and Water
You know that oil and water do not mix. And that seems to be a big reason why a lot of guys decide to keep their fetish quiet. One quiet spoken, intelligent man told me, “I have always been a sexual explorer. My wife is very conservative. I cannot even imagine her being a cuckold wife.” He may be right about that. Some fetishes are too far of a stretch for some personalities. That is a fact.
In a case like that, it makes sense to me to either keep your secret as a secret, or approach it very cautiously. Once you reveal your need for a specific fetish, you can’t take it back. Right? Until you do decide to share your fetish with your significant other, you can have a Mistress to explore it with. Because a fetish never goes away. It needs to be taken out and exercised regularly to avoid blowing up into a GIGANTIC fetish monster that pushes you to do something that upsets your life in a negative manner.
Naughty Nature
Some of you simply enjoy being clandestine in your search for fulfillment. In short, being naughty. Ah, I know you when I meet you. *smile* One such caller told me, “I could bring up my cum eating fetish with my wife, and she would likely be fine with it. But it wouldn’t be as much fun as waiting until I have privacy, and calling you!”
Well…that is very flattering, of course. And it makes me laugh, which I always appreciate. Because I know that some things are just more enticing when they are done in secret. It’s true, and you know it! I get it and am delighted to be your naughty little secret.
Let’s Hear It
So tell me…why do you keep your fetish from your lady? You know that I am intrigued with the workings of the mind. I really do want to know! You can leave a comment here telling me your reason and whether you expect to ever tell your lady about your currently secret desires.
Temporary Schedule
If you have not looked at my Schedule & Sessions page lately, I have updated it to reflect temporary daytime/evening hours. From now through December 5th I am working between noon and 10 pm ET. This is a great time to call me from work, or catch me from your car before you head home.
On December 6th, I will be back to my usual hours!
Find my newest sizzling erotic audios in the Enchantrix Empire Audio Store. “Becoming My Slave” and “Your Body Gets Clamped”
By Empress Violet, on November 6th, 2011
 Ms Violet 800-601-6975 Viva Las Vegas
I am headed to Vegas tomorrow morning and will be there for 8 fun-filled days and nights. It is that time again…the LDW Mistress Gathering. When as many of we lovely ladies as possible gather at one fabulous Vegas hotel/casino for some face to face time. Can you imagine 40, or more, of us all in one room? At the same time!
After the first 3 days, the Mistress Gathering will be over and I will be staying for 5 days working vacation. Some of you have been new to that concept. It means I will be signing in for calls when I am not out having Vegas fun! So look for me online during the day, evening, or night! Take a look at the Schedule & Sessions page of this blog for details.
While You Are Waiting
There are all sorts of things you can do to feel close to me when you are are missing me. Of course you can look for up online and call! *smile* But I also have lots of sexy, interesting blogs for you to read. You will find sexy photos, interesting postings, fun ideas, and provoking thoughts!
~ This one. You are already here! I have about 2 1/2 years worth of posts to read, audios, and all sorts of specialty pages too!
~ www.YourKinkAdvisor.com An advice column blog
~ www.ILovePantyBoys.com I really do!
~ www.PhoneSexForCouples.com Something to consider *wink*
Hear Me
I used to host a weekly talk show on Talkshoe. It was called The Voyeur Window. An exploration of a different fascinating fetish every episode! You can still listen to the shows at Talkshoe. The last episodes aired on BBS Radio , but it requires a minimal membership fee to hear those archived episodes. Along with the show, I have a blog. It is www.TheVoyeurWindow.com Check it out to read about sexy topics, see more erotic pics, and have naughty fun!
Teasing Your Ears
This may be news to you: I have HUNDREDS of audios posted on our free audio sites? It’s true! You can listen for free at TeaseMania and at GetGirlie. They are on topics from body worship, to humiliation, and from cuckolding, to coerced cock sucking. Something for every kinkster! This alone could keep you busy until I get back home!
Find Out More About Me
On this blog I have an “About Me” page. You will literally learn a LOT about me just by reading that. Now, some of what you read may raise some questions for you…but we can talk about those when we get together next. Here is something else to comtemplate: You can tell a lot about a Mistress just by looking at her Wish List. So I invite you to take a tour through my Wish List. See what I am into. Get a read on my tastes and interests.
Out of State, NOT Out of Touch
Though I will be in Nevada for the next 8 days, I will still be in touch with you all. Able to check my IM’s and emails and respond to you; especially after the first 3 days are over. During that time, we Mistresses tend to party so hard we have little time for sleep! But after that…you will DEFINITELY get a response from me; and I will be taking calls again!
So think of me lots…keep yourself busy…and call me when you see me signed in! I will be SO ready for naughty fun with you boys and sissies!
Hugs & kisses…
By Empress Violet, on October 25th, 2011
 Ms Violet & Ms Olivia 800-601-6075 To Eat or Not to Eat
You are probably wondering why I have a pic of my good friend Ms Olivia, here on my blog. It is because the two of us have partnered on a new blog. A blog on the joys of cum eating. There is more to this blog than you might believe. It is www.CoachedToEatCum.com.
On the surface, cum eating seems like a simple activity. But, in reality, there are many aspects involved. A lot of men have given thought to trying it, some have desperately wanted to and just could not do it on their own, some of you are ready to give it a try, and the rest of you are old hats at cum eating! Or…you have no interest in this at all. If that is the case, just enjoy the lovely pics to your left and then read back over previous sexy entries you ARE into. *laugh*
The Reasons Vary
With my love of psychology, I am always curious about why a man wants to eat cum. The reasons are incredibly varied. After making eight sexy free cum eating audios, and posting them on the new blog…today a caller made me aware of a ninth reason. Let me share all of those with you now:
- You already know that you love/crave eating cum. Whether it is the taste, the texture, the taboo aspect, or the act of submission.
- It is your first time eating cum and you need to be guided through.
- You are a cock sucker and need to suck cum off your fingers or a dildo to calm your craving.
- You enjoy being humiliated; laughed at for being a total cum dump.
- You are a sissy or CD who enjoys the feminine feeling you get when you eat cum.
- You are bi, or bi-curious and need me to coerce you into eating cum.
- You are an advanced cum eater who is ready to learn some cum recipes, or want to learn how to make your cum sweeter.
- You want to be educated about cum eating and convinced that it is good to eat your own cum.
- You would never eat cum on your own, but doing it for a Mistress who enjoys it, is an act of devotion to her.
Give it Some Thought
Perhaps one of the reasons I listed above will peak your interest and you will find yourself thinking about possibly eating your cum. My advice is that instead of letting that curiosity roll around in your head too long, you visit our new blog, read the postings, listen to the free cum eating audios, read the Cum Eating FAQ, and the pages about both of us. Call one of us and talk it through. You know the saying, “No harm, no foul.” That is quite true here. Should you decide to try cum eating and you do not enjoy it, just do not do it again.
But should you eat your cum and find that it excites you, you have opened up an entirely new avenue of fetish exploration. That can lead to a whole world of excitement for you; or a new element to add to your existing fetish. Why not, I ask?
Your Reason Why
Why do you eat your cum? Why do you want to? Why have you never tried it? I really am interested in your stories. Feel free to leave them here in comments. That is where the real action is, so be sure to read the comments anyway!
Happy Cum Eating!
By Empress Violet, on October 4th, 2011
 Entertain Us
It will not be a surprise to you to find out that I have some very naughty girlfriends. Ladies who are involved in the fetish lifestyle in a variety of manners. Owning slaves & submissives, swingers, CFNM couples, play parties. These ladies look to me to provide some unique entertainment for them. And this month…tag…you’re it! *grin*
I told the ladies that you will be coming over for a special party. What you do not realize is that you are the entertainment! Stripped naked, except for a stylish collar with D-ring; I pose you strategically on a low platform in the entryway of my home. In a position that is ridiculous and difficult to maintain. And yet, maintain you shall. Or else! What do I mean by that? Read on!
Make Us Laugh
When I give you an order and you do not follow it, that means you are asking for the fun to be bumped up! I may have you stand in the center of the table as a centerpiece for my girlfriends and I to enjoy through our meal. You standing there, rigid, with orders to remain rigid without touching yourself until dinner is over. Or perhaps we have you hold your pose while we hurl small penis humiliation your way for an hour or so.
And then I may have you crawl behind me into the living room, hop up onto a large leather ottoman for the real entertainment. I hand each lady a pretty satin ribbon in a pastel color and instruct them to tie a dainty bow around your girly giggle stick. You end up looking like an Easter basket. *laughing*
Then we have you pose for us in all sorts of embarrassing poses. Hold completely still while you are touched randomly by our perfectly pedicured feet. Imagine the feel of our soft, beautiful feet moving over your flesh. I can almost feel you shiver. If you move, you get spanked. Over my knee, bare assed, while each lady has her turn paddling your naked hiney. With we ladies laughing hysterically all the while!
Humiliation for Free
Starting on October 6th and continuing through October 31st, each day we will post a “Letter of the Day” on www.thedailycock.com. If your last name starts with that letter, you get a free 10 minute phone sex call with the Mistress of your choice! You must be a previous caller of the service as of Midnight Eastern Time on October 5th in order to take advantage of this promotion.
Now here’s the trick – you’ll have to visit www.thedailycock.com to find out the letter of the day. Our lovely dispatchers will not be able to tell you, so you can’t call in and ask if it’s your day. You’ll need to tell the dispatcher that you’re calling in for the Letter of the Day promo in order to get your call.
The Letter of the Day will be posted right after Midnight Eastern Time each day, and you can call to claim your call anytime that day.
A Red Face Awaits
It has never been easier to get humiliated by a beautiful Mistress and her kinky girlfriends! So what are you waiting for? In 10 minutes I can make the blood rush to your face, your cock stand at attention, your head spin, and have you gasping. Do not miss your day to get a free 10 minute call with me, or your favorite Mistress.
Need some ideas for a humiliation call, check out the essays in our Phone Sex Library!
 The Perfect Feet of Ms Violet
By Empress Violet, on September 30th, 2011
Breaking the Mold
Some of you are really stuck in a rut. Guided masturbation is fun. Edging is fabulous. But there are so many exciting fetishes out there to explore. And trying them does not have to mean jumping in the lake and hoping you can swim. No! You can just stick in . . . → Read More: Giving You Phone Fun With a Twist
By Empress Violet, on September 28th, 2011
A Surprise to You
Most of my callers want to talk with sensually sweet, caring Ms Violet. The firm, but sensual phone sex Fem Domme who holds their hand along the way; is there for them when they need to chat, or need encouragement. But there is a certain group of my callers who . . . → Read More: Finding My Dark Side
By Empress Violet, on September 24th, 2011
Empress Violet & Mistress Olga
Who’s That Lady
If you do not recognize the stunning blonde standing next to me in this picture, then you have not been keeping up with the additions here at LDW. She is the tall, curvaceous Mistress Olga. She is one of our newer ladies. I had the . . . → Read More: Teasing You Silly
By Empress Violet, on September 21st, 2011
Heads Up UK Guys
The incredible Mistresses of LDW are now available to you on a variety of delectable domination sites. Geared just for the guys in the UK. This is exciting news. You might want to take out your willy and start stroking while you read on. *wink*
As you know, we . . . → Read More: Dominating Men Worldwide
By Empress Violet, on September 8th, 2011
Am I a lucky woman, or what??
Outstanding Examples
Every now and then one of my callers does something that is truly blog worthy. There were actually a few of those this week. I decided to start with a few who showed devotion above and beyond to their enchanting Mistress.
Thank you to . . . → Read More: Showing True Devotion
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