We have a new website called MasturbationAffirmation.com. If you are new to affirmations, they are statements that you want to be true, but are not yet true for you. Generally these affirmations are said to achieve a personal goal.
Knowing how much you love to stroke your cock, I decided to create an affirmation for masturbation. If you would like to be masturbating more, this may make me the Masturbatrix of your dreams.
How Does This Work?
You may be thinking, how can saying something make something true? Because the brain is listening and learning. For instance, when you tell yourself that “masturbation is good for you“, your brain perks up and thinks, “Is that right? I always suspected so.” It begins to tell you to masturbate more often.
You say specific affirmations twice daily in a specific way until you feel it to be true. Read the details about how to do this and what to say. Plus, you will find some very sexy photos of me to masturbate to. *wink*
If you are a chronic stroker, this is just the thing for you. You will be able to top your personal best. If you are simply curious to see if this will make a difference in your masturbation frequency, do the affirmations for two weeks.
It is very important to follow my directions on the link provided, to get the full affect. Otherwise, you are unlikely to see the results your wicked mind is hoping for. And I never want you to be disappointed.
I would love to hear from you about your experience with this. You know my background is in the field of mental health. Everything is game for a scientific experiment…including your masturbation!
You are going to be masturbating more. Ready…set…stroke!
This is more than simply a way to make money. And you are more than just a client. You really are a gift to me.
You light up my life, you show me true submission and devotion, you add laughter to my days and nights, and have become a true friend of this FemDom Mistress.
Wave of Mistress Gratitude
I start every day with verbally stating what I am grateful for. That is important to me. This time of year, I find myself even more grateful for you. How lucky I am to have you in my life. Your trust and respect are gifts I treasure.
Yes, we met through a phone domination service. So what? You are in my life and I am in yours. This is a real connection and it means something to me. I trust you feel that in our sessions.
Let Me Give Back to You
You give to me all year long. Calling me, sending me lovely gifts and even virtual bouquets. All of that is so appreciated. It touches my heart. Now let me give back to you.
You have told me, more than once, that your favorite photos of me are in the red mini dress with black knee high socks. That is why I chose one of those photos for the special Christmas photo above. I hope that pleases you. Feel free to look at it again and again. Allow me to make it clear that you are a special part of my life. Now, and throughout the year.
Another Gift for You
One gift was not enough. I want to give you something else to show you how much you mean to me. At the bottom of this post is an audio that will only be posted here on my main blog. Only you, my most devoted submissive, will hear it.
Know that what is contained in this audio comes from my heart. Embrace my Mistress gratitude and feel the love.
Merry Christmas darling!
To listen to my special audio, click the far left end of the bar below:
No one to lock you up? That is where I come in. Chastity is one of my very favorite fetishes. I have learned some techniques and implements to make distance chastity as “real” as you want it to be.
Being locked in chastity for your Mistress is the deepest form of submission that exists. You can show your Mistress that you trust her and are devoted to her by submitting to chastity.
Chastity Requires Trust
You really do need to trust your Mistress in order to go into chastity for her. It is important to believe that she knows what she is doing, so you are safe. You need to trust that she will get you out of your device when needed. Emergencies do happen.
Trust that your Mistress cares about you and your welfare is critical. You will be giving your Mistress the ultimate control over you…and your cock. That is what turns me on so much about chastity. It will be one of the aspects that excites you most as well.
Miss Violet 800-601-6975
Distance Chastity is Challenging
I have come up with a plan to ensure you feel owned, fully controlled, and at my mercy. Do not look for me to go into that full plan here, but I will say that one of the main items is insisting that you stay in touch frequently.
Making a call every now and then will not work for distance chastity. I need to speak with you regularly. Expect me to ask you questions about your physical, mental, and emotional state of mind. Each person’s chastity is unique, and my plan for you will be unique as well. It will be based on your needs and desires, as well as your reactions to the initial period of chastity.
How Long is Up to You
You can be locked up for 24 hours to start, if you are a beginner. Another option is to be locked up for 3 months with an option to make it open-ended chastity after that. Your initial period of chastity will be set based on your experience, your masturbation habits, and your preferences. If you are not enjoying yourself, it is far less fun for me.
I have distance chastity clients who have been locked up for over a year; others never make it past a day. One thing all of them have in common, is a desire to experience chastity on some level, and a soul level feeling of being owned and controlled by me.
Are You Ready?
Call or email me and let’s discuss chastity. Most people require a cock cage to stay chaste. You may be different. I am open to you going without a device, based on certain requirements. How chastity affects men is not changed when it is a distance relationship. Ask me about the benefits of chastity.
If you do not have a cage yet, I would like to advise you as to the proper model and style for your cock. They need to fit very well. We will discuss the types of chastity devices.
Search for other posts I have written on the subject of chastity. You will learn even more about my approach and why my chastity clients are so devoted to me.
Just when I think that Over the Knee Spanky Boi has reached the epitome of humiliation with his spankings, he tells me about his most recent experience and I realize that he can take the spanking humiliation further!
He has a huge spanking fetish and goes to a professional Mistress for a proper spanking on a regular basis. It balances him out, in oh so many ways. Here is what happened during his last session in the classroom.
OTK Boi loves it when his Pro Domme calls in other Mistresses to watch his humiliating spanking. He makes sure to entertain them by ramping up his own humiliation. He announced what the Mistress was going to do to him. Sort of like ringing the dinner bell on the ranch. Everyone comes running.
When the Mistresses were gathered and laughing, he discovered that all four of his cheeks were blushing. Two from the spanking and two from the embarrassment. I laughed so hard, just hearing about this. Imagine him wailing away, seeing these lovely young women watching and laughing, his pants down around his ankles, bent over the Mistress’ lap. Perfection!
After the spanking, Mistress put a big, colorful, cannot-be-missed dunce cap on his head, and stood him in front of the blackboard. He had to write “(his name) is getting an over-the-knee spanking” 100 times in chalk. OTK Boi gets so turned on by spanking that this is continuing eroticism for him.
Oh, naughty, naughty OTK Boi. Where will he take things next? I have some ideas, but let’s see what he comes up with in his own devious mind.
Do you enjoy a humiliating spanking? What do you find humiliating about it? What is the best part for you?
Miss Violet 800-601-6975
Spanking is my favorite form of impact play. I love to talk about it, hear about it, and do it!!
This is the same attitude I developed years ago when I discovered BDSM. It is an attitude that I know you would recognize. The Mistress Attitude. It can be so subtle that people outside of the scene would not recognize it for what it is. They might think I am a bossy woman, demanding, or spoiled.
But you would meet me, or talk with me on the phone, and very quickly know that I am a Mistress. I am used to being in control and and being obeyed. It is part of what makes you want to submit to me.
Do not expect me to be your girlfriend, or to cater to your whims. That is not how the D/s dynamic works. I am in charge. I set the rules. And once you agree to be mine, knowing my rules, there is no negotiation to change them.
Understand that I expect one thing from you at all times and that is respect. I give it to you and demand it in return. Start by never hanging up on me. I do not care if you came and you feel “done”. Common courtesy is to say “Thank you, Mistress. Goodnight”. And I expect courtesy beyond what is common.
Mean What You Say
If I ask you what you want to do in your session and you reply, “Whatever you want, Mistress”, be very sure that you mean it. Because I will likely jump on that and say, “Great. I am in the mood for taking you with my largest strap on.” So think before you offer me that kind of latitude, dear submissive.
A smart way to approach me in session is to come with a general idea of what you want to do. It can be something as simple as “cum eating”, or more complex such as “slave training”. I will have a grand time, regardless, because I will be controlling you completely and that is a turn on for me. But it is annoying when you offer me full rein and then take it back.
Topping From the Bottom
I have written about this before. Due to this being distance domination, some level of topping from the bottom is inevitable. But do not lose your head and bark orders at me, push me to jump to a particular activity, or interrupt me constantly to change the direction needlessly.
If the role play or scene we are enjoying goes in a direction you do not like, yes…please do politely stop me and let me know what the problem is. But if I am within the boundaries we agreed on, and it’s just not quite the perfection you had in your head, I will be most annoyed to be stopped again and again in your quest for nebulous perfection. An annoyed Mistress is usually not a good thing. Take heed!
The Real Me
You know that I am friendly, caring, intuitive, and easy to talk with. But what I wrote about above is also a real part of me. It is something you need to be aware of so that our relationship can blossom and deepen. I like us to have a meaningful, “real” relationship. That requires honesty and openness.
Aren’t you glad I opened up and shared my Mistress attitude with you?
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