Several of my wonderful little slave boys and sissy gurls have begged me to give more information about myself. I think that is a great idea. They really want to know how I got started in domination. As many of you know, I have 14 years of real life experience in the lifestyle. Yes…I do realize that is half of my life. Looking back this, I believe I was simply born dominant. I can remember being 9 or 10 years old, playing bondage Barbies. Literally, I tied them up, humiliated them a bit, tortured them in a fun way. You can bet that I had not seen that kind of activity with my strict Catholic upbringing. It just came naturally. By the time I was 14, I was teasing and dominating boys in my high school and loving it. It’s amazing how submissive boys can sniff out a dominating girl so easily. By day…sweet young girl. After school…budding young Dominatrix. I had Senior football stars over my knee, spanking their well toned asses…class brains twisted around my lovely finger…the class president on all fours sucking a dildo. After high school, I had college boys to play with. My little harem of slave boys and gurls expanded. One of them had a basement which they made available to me as a dungeon. That dank little underground room gave me a chance to experiment in private. I had my slaves install rings on the wall, floor and ceiling. Let the games begin! But I will write more details about those sessions another time. After I turned 21, I joined a local BDSM club and began making use of the dungeon for fun and games. That was where I had my first sissy gurl experience and from there I really got into forced feminization and forced bi. Over the years I have had a number of real life slaves, submissives and play partners. Currently I have two live-in slave boys. They are service slaves who have signed contracts acknowledging their desire for a completely service-oriented, non-sexual lifestyle. #1 is my longest term slave boy at just over 5 years. He does grocery shopping, errands, cooking, some cleaning and massages my feet. #2 has been with me for 3 years. He does cleaning, yard work and pool boy duty. I have 3 other slave boys who do not live with me. We scene regularly and they are little pain sluts, ass whores. They have belonged to me for between 2-4 years. Early on I knew I was more of a sensuous Mistress. But when a slave boy or sissy gurl needed more…I delivered!
I worked for 1 other company, very briefly, before making my way to LDW. The elite in the industry. The other Goddesses here are incredible women and becoming good friends already. And as for our slave boys & sissy gurls…you are a delight!
Keep the suggestions coming. I created this blog for your enjoyment. If there is something you want to know about…just ask. I’m such a Dominant woman and love to talk about my naughty adventures.
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Teasingly…
Mistress Violet, I can hardly wait to read more about your experience. Tonight I will put my collar on and dream about being one of yours lucky slave boys.
Wow!!!!Very Sexy Intelligent lady!!!!!! I have yet to call her but am looking forward to!!!!Id love to have her feminize me and become one of her sissyboys!!!
And now you have done a few calls with me Peter. Your other girlfriend and I have AMAZING times with you. *kisses*
It’s always good to find out more about Miss Vioilet! *squirm*
Bondage Barbies, eh? I don’t remember seeing them on the adverts!
That is a little something I came up with in childhood tease toy. Typing up my Barbies, spanking them. Those dolls were kept in line! Yes…that is how early I felt my dominant tendencies. I can always tell a serious fan. They read every page of my blog. Good boy tease toy.
I can relate to that exacly, only difference is that i knew i was submissive!
It actually started off very early in my childhood, at least from when i was 7, 8 and i remember that i always, especially used to dream about girls and women sitting on me. Anywhere they wanted on my body. I always dreamed of meeting a girl who liked to sit on my chest and bounce up and down with her ass on my ribcage…And i remember i used to look at older, teenage girls butts and just wish over anything in life that they would sit on my face for a while. 
God, i wish i was one of those boys you went to high school with…! I would have done anything you asked me to! I still would, for that matter! You are so sexy! I wish i was your slave. 
And now John, you found out where the kinky ladies hang out. *wink* You are all set! Can’t wait for our first session!!
I´m also a huge thong fetishist..I´ve always had a soft spot for every girl and woman who wears this, always popular and sexy style of underwear! Only that itself makes me want to be her slave.
You´re so sexy in that blue one, in the pic on the front page – it really makes your butt look perfect! 
And on that banner for audios, where you wear a black one…Wow! I´d give anything just to sniff that thin thong string after you´ve had it inbetween your buttcheeks all day…Must smell like heaven for sure! 
Your blogg is so cool and i have to keep reading more another day! I love femdom blogs and they´re pretty rare too…So please, keep up the good work!!
You can count on me keeping up my femdom blogs John. I really enjoy writing and particularly about my favorite topics…Domination…cock control…the Mistress/s relationship…and all of the fetish activities which circle around these subjects. Fun! Thanks for being a subscriber!!
Hmm..Just wondering what you mean by subscriber? Doesn´t that come with a charge of some sort? Or is it just that you get free news about updates and so in your email?
I just hope i haven´t clicked the wrong button here somewhere…Always better to ask, even if it may sound stupid.
I´ll definitely continue reading here and keeping myself updated at least, cause your blog is a cool place!
I´d have to call from somewhere else in that case, cause i live with my parents again at the moment (i know, i know – shit happened!
And i know they get a record of our calls. Must find my own place again…
Well, i actually broke up with my girlfriend and moved back in with my parents again after that. I never brought any of my submissive fantasies up with her during our time together…Just regular, straight sex. But she was never the dominant type, so i know it wouldn´t have worked anyway.
Hello again John! In this case…being a “subscriber” means that you clicked on the “Subscribe to This Blog” button. It is FREE and easy. When you do that, as soon as I post a new blog posting, you get a message in your email letting you know about it. Fun! You are so funny.
Hey…there are a LOT of people who have moved back in with their parents in this crazy economy. No worries. You might want to consider a text session. Check out this site: http://www.SexyTexting.com Super quiet, no phone call to trace. *smile*
i love the story of your long involvement with knowing who you are – dominant, beautiful, intelligent, caring, insightful – with a variety of interests and ton of knowledge and experience as Mistress. Pretty special.
Thank you susan. I get a lot of questions about my history as a lifestyle Mistress. Sometimes I get so many that it just makes sense to post about it in a public forum such as my blog. So happy to hear you enjoyed reading about me.