Tell Me What you Need
So Use It
It always amazes me when people expect me to literally read their minds. Particularly from the first phone call. Hey, once I get to know you, you will swear I can read your mind. But at the beginning, it is important that you communicate with me as to precisely what your kinky phone sex desires are.The Details
Even if you can just say “I want guided masturbation“, or “I enjoy cuckold fantasies“. At least that gives me a good idea of your brand of fun. I will be able to run with that and give you a very memorable call. But if you call me and say “I just want to do whatever you like”, don’t be surprised if I test that by suggesting you try my new strap-on, “Big Jim”. *laughing* The reality is that this is your call…I want you to enjoy yourself. Making you do things that please me does nothing if I don’t think you are also into it.
How Important
Communications are crucial to all interactions. Stating what you want, what you don’t want. Or guess what? You could easily get a lot of things you really don’t want. Even with great communications, things can go awry. Take my upcoming birthday party. One week away now. I stated that I would like a laid-back celebration at the house with my closest friends. As of today there are over 40 people coming and it has morphed into this sort of Indonesian luau pool party affair.
The Bottom Line
If you do a call and feel you did not get precisely what you wanted…take a moment to reflect on what you asked for. How much detail did you give your Mistress. Did you clearly express your needs, your turn-offs, your triggers? If not, and I am your Mistress, I invite you to give it another try. Let’s talk about what worked and what did not. Because I am not interested in giving you a so-so call. I want it to be mind-blowing!!!
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It is ironic that a post about how important good communication is, doesn’t have any replies, Miss Violet! *squirm*
As we both know, and how you perfectly describe, things can still go awry. Communication is the bedrock of a relationship and is an artform unto itself, which needs constant practice.
How others believe they can achieve what they desire without it, I cannot comprehend!
You know how these things can go tease toy. If the message does not hit home, you move along. If it does, you might not want to respond because you are thinking about the issue a bit. No worries. You will a few postings that never got a comment. Naughty boys out there!