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Ms. Violet Lures out your Inner KinsterFrom Average to Wild Man

Many a mild mannered, seemingly dare I say average man, harbors a very naughty flip side of himself.   I wonder if you are one of those men.  You have known for a long time that you have this other side.  This side that longs to stretch its wings and fly.  This side that has been pushed down, forced to retreat, and nearly beaten into submission.

But that dark side of yourself is very resilient.  Those naughty desires do not go away.  In fact, they do not go anywhere.  But they do grow.  Oh, how they grow!  Left untended, they can become this monster that bursts out uncontrollable, and perhaps rather frightening to those around you.  So let me help you feed that inner kinkster and bring him out into the open where we can help him explore and thrive.

The First Step

Admitting that you have this side of yourself is critical.  Just say it out loud:  Hello…my name is (fill in the blank here) and I am kinky.  Say it loud and proud.  Because this really is the first step in bringing your kinky side out for some air.

Now that you have that behind you, take a deep breath and think about what you really want.  Is it a secret, sexy playmate to explore fantasies with?  Do you long for a strong woman to sensually dominate you…control you?  Or maybe you have your eye on something more specific.  Something like cum eating, anal play, or cuckolding.  You know…something taboo.

The Partner Issue

Odd are that you have a partner.  A wife, girlfriend, your significant other.  You may have brought your kink up with her and received a less than positive response.  Maybe you are too afraid to even bring it up, or just do not care to.  But the fact is…you need someone to play with.  This is where I come in.

You and I will never meet in person.  I will never even know your name, as you can give me any name you like.  This gives your experience with me a comforting sense of anonymity.  Tell me what you have been desiring.  Let’s discuss the details and find a way to satisfy your need.  I do not get shocked, angry, or judge you.  I see my role as a surrogate partner.  Here to do things you can’t do with your primary partner.

Stretching Your Wings

The first time we talk, we might just spend some time getting to know one another.  You can tell me about your kink and we can talk about it.  If you feel the time is right, I would love to do a role play or a scene with you, centered around your kink.  There is no rush.  We will take things at your speed.

No doubt our first role play or scene will be exciting.  But over time, as you become more comfortable with your desires and loosen up…they grow more intense and rather addicting.  Prepare to feel a serious need to spend time with me.  This is all about giving yourself time to stretch your wings and fly with your kink!

Secrets Kept Here

Much like Las Vegas…what happens in session with me, stays with me.  I am your seductive confessor…your serene sexual playmate…your open minded kink partner.  And grabbing time with me is easy.  I work a lot by appointments.  Email me to set an appointment.  Or look at my Schedule and Sessions page on this blog to see my hours.  If you see me logged in and available, I suggest you grab me quickly.

How long have you been keeping your secret kink inside?  If you have let yours out, how long did you wait before letting it out?  Miss Violet wants to know.  And I want to help you with the care and feeding of your deepest desires.

Miss Violet 800-601-6975

Miss Violet 800-601-6975

 

 

 

18 comments to Luring Out Your Inner Kinkster

  • PB

    Ms Violet…I think I might have an inner kinkster that i might not be aware of 🙂 We should definitely explore that side of me and find a way to release it…to let it fly 🙂

    • Oh really PB? You “think” you “might” have an inner kinkster? *laughing so hard* That is something akin to Channing Tatum saying “I think I might have an inner hunk that I might not be aware of”. You are hilarious PB! Count on that. I will most definitely further release your “inner kinkster”.

      • PB

        Ms Violet…the sky is the limit. Please do help me find and release my “inner kinster”….I so want to take it where it has never gone before. Please help me on this journey….In the immortal words of Neil Armstrong (with some minor changes)….”One small step for “this” man, one giant step for my inner kinster”. I imagine that as we take this journey there will be some kneeling on my part and that my arms will get stronger from all the stroking.

        • When I am done with you, PB, you may have the arms of Popeye. Or Arnold Schwarzenegger in his heyday. *laughing* Pushups, every morning, 10 times! Oh wait…that’s something else. Cock ups, every session, 100 times!!!! *laughing*

  • slave rob

    Mistress…love the pic, love this post.

    I remember so well the first time you coaxed my inner kink to let go…taking off the business suit for you and learning how to submit and serve a dominant goddess. And how it has progressed to cock control, spanking, CBT, panties and lingerie, public displays of servitude, sharing me with other Mistresses, and cum eating at every release.

    I love that you helped me find a way to address that side of me, and I treasure the time serving you. You have really helped expand my experience and boundaries, and I am grateful. You are a most wonderful Mistress. I am so lucky that you have helped me the way you have,

    • Oh yes, slave rob. I remember that first time as well. You were so conservative looking. So very reserved and nervous. Little by little I was able to coax you out and introduce you to a myriad of kinks. You have done very well indeed. So good to see you embracing your kinky side now. *smile*

  • Peter

    Ms Violet I like to wear women’s clothes! Ive been done with bodybuilding for the last 6 years but I still get waxed monthly! In still in great shape but love having girlish soft smooth skin as its so hot wearing the soft satin silky boy shorts, bras, slips against my girlish smooth soft skin. Also wearing lipsticks, heels, lotions, it all started when I was 16 and my stepmom was 32 and would sit on my lap and give me lipstick kisses as well as her and her friend putting rouge on me. I then later snuck into her room sprayed perfume on me put on her lipstick. It was so hot. Also watching Ginger have way with Gilligan kissing him. As well as hot dresses she wore! Then at 28 I was home waiting to do laundry but load was in wash I spotted room mates gfs bra, that’s where it all started she had 34 c cup I put it against my chest and it was turn on. I slowly bought bras in person at Victoria’s secret as well as lipsticks, lotions, and perfumes. As time went it became heels, wigs, and dresses along with girls tops and slacks. I’ve been doing this for over 25 years. Its reason why I’m single as I’m afraid to let it out, but it did leak out when I had my space about my fetishes, that was about 5 years or so ago. Ive pretty much broke ties with one that knew but who cares its what makes me happy not them. Im 42 and I have no intention of purging. If I find women it won’t matter as I’d get cought wearing women’s clothes. New friends don’t no nor should they know. It gets me off what can I say. I don’t go out dressed only wearing boy shorts , bra women’s boots and yoga pants I’d wear out which I have and girls at salon didn’t notice as I got make up application done. That was hot also as I went home and jerked off with makeup on as well as nails done. So yes I confess I love dressing as girl to get off. I’m chronic masterbater dressed as women. I should be primed for chastity for getting every time dressed up as girl to get off. Sorry for long post rant but we’ve been taking on phone for last 5 years when you first started on ldw with Ms Olivia and I feel us 3 have special bond. I know we will never meet in person but if we ever did we’d be perfect match for real as we’d be perfect for each other.

    • Your journey has been a very interesting one Peter. I know well your love of wearing feminine clothing and makeup. It certainly does turn you on. And Peter…hearing how turned on you get turns me on! So thank you for sharing your inner kinkster with me both in session and here in my blog. By the way…my 4 year anniversary with LDW is coming up in August. It does seem longer though, doesn’t it? *grin*

  • Peter

    When i was 2 years old i had lawn mour accident and had 15 years of surgeries and i never had childhood where i asked out girls never went on dates, prom, by time surgeries were don I was 16-17 high school was over I had late start in life. I want you and other mistresses to make me your sissy girl as well as dress me and do what should’ve been done when I was younger where girls would’ve dressed me put make up on me like girl on bus did to certain guys as she would put make up on them as well as perfume, lipstick which never happened to me but so wanted it to.

    • Better late than never is often said for a reason Peter. So you got a late start…that just means you need to run a little faster to catch up. *wink* The other Mistresses and I are having so much fun turning you into our perfect sissy. You are divine to feminize. *hugs*

  • Forrest

    Hello mistress Violet. I suspect I have a naughty kinky side just waiting to be pulled to the surface. Based on the way our relationship has been going in our short time together I think you will have a very easy time coaxing it out of me. Since we’ve started talking I’ve found myself wanting you to seductively force me to do more and more kinkier things in service of you goddess Violet. I find myself getting extremely turned on thinking about the naughty things you will want me to do in my submission to you. As I have expressed to you before I’m open and willing to do anything for you mistress. All you have to do is say the word.

    • You suspect that forrest? *suppressing a giggle* Sweetie, you definitely have a naughty side. I have seen it come out in your emails and in session! Seductive coaxing is one of the things I do best. So let’s plan on that happening dear forrest. “Word”.

  • little luke

    Another great blog Miss Violet! Thank you for guiding me through the “other side” of me. Your ability to draw the kink out of me, control me, dominate me makes each session unique and memorable. It is amazing how deep we have gone and how we dig deeper each time.

    ps – awesome photo! 🙂

    • Aw…you like my pic. *kisses* So happy to give you some eye candy little luke. Guiding you has been fabulous. You are so very submissive and obedient. I appreciate your trust little luke. Without that, we have nothing. *hugs*

  • Tom

    Ms V,
    Really found this blog to be accurate and so close to what we have shared in conversations. Not just bringing out the kink side of a man but your willing to get to know someone and once comfortable with them show your sexual prowess.
    Our last call was, and I mean this amazing and powerful!
    Let the kink begin!
    Soon V

    • Well hello there Tom. *big smile* So good to see you here in my little corner of the world. It’s cozy in here, isn’t it? You and I have been exploring intensely. While you were already well aware of your kinkster side, and have been exercising him frequently long before we met…we have certainly been having an amazing time exploring that side together. I say…let the kink continue!

  • Tom H

    MS V,
    As I told you I loved this blog because it is so true. Once we had gotten to know each other and feeling more comfortable we found so much in common. Our last chat was incredible to say the least! I look forward to some more. Thanks for being you.
    Soon V,
    Tom

    • Hey Tom! For reasons unknown, your comment was in the wrong file. I just saw it and rescued it. *smile* Talking with you has been comfortable from the start. The more intimate times become more comfortable by the week! I had a great time teasing you with sensory play tonight.

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