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Entering the World of Cum Eating

Empress Violet — Tue, 25 Oct 2011 07:44:00 +0000

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To Eat or Not to Eat

You are probably wondering why I have a pic of my good friend Ms Olivia, here on my blog. It is because the two of us have partnered on a new blog. A blog on the joys of cum eating. There is more to this blog than you might believe. It is www.CoachedToEatCum.com.

On the surface, cum eating seems like a simple activity. But, in reality, there are many aspects involved. A lot of men have given thought to trying it, some have desperately wanted to and just could not do it on their own, some of you are ready to give it a try, and the rest of you are old hats at cum eating! Or…you have no interest in this at all. If that is the case, just enjoy the lovely pics to your left and then read back over previous sexy entries you ARE into. *laugh*

The Reasons Vary

With my love of psychology, I am always curious about why a man wants to eat cum. The reasons are incredibly varied. After making eight sexy free cum eating audios, and posting them on the new blog…today a caller made me aware of a ninth reason. Let me share all of those with you now:

You already know that you love/crave eating cum. Whether it is the taste, the texture, the taboo aspect, or the act of submission.
It is your first time eating cum and you need to be guided through.
You are a cock sucker and need to suck cum off your fingers or a dildo to calm your craving.
You enjoy being humiliated; laughed at for being a total cum dump.
You are a sissy or CD who enjoys the feminine feeling you get when you eat cum.
You are bi, or bi-curious and need me to coerce you into eating cum.
You are an advanced cum eater who is ready to learn some cum recipes, or want to learn how to make your cum sweeter.
You want to be educated about cum eating and convinced that it is good to eat your own cum.
You would never eat cum on your own, but doing it for a Mistress who enjoys it, is an act of devotion to her.

Give it Some Thought

Perhaps one of the reasons I listed above will peak your interest and you will find yourself thinking about possibly eating your cum. My advice is that instead of letting that curiosity roll around in your head too long, you visit our new blog, read the postings, listen to the free cum eating audios, read the pages about both of us. Call one of us and talk it through. You know the saying, “No harm, no foul.” That is quite true here. Should you decide to try cum eating and you do not enjoy it, just do not do it again.

But should you eat your cum and find that it excites you, you have opened up an entirely new avenue of fetish exploration. That can lead to a whole world of excitement for you; or a new element to add to your existing fetish. Why not, I ask?

Your Reason Why

Why do you eat your cum? Why do you want to? Why have you never tried it? I really am interested in your stories. Feel free to leave them here in comments. That is where the real action is, so be sure to read the comments anyway!

Happy Cum Eating!

Humiliation From A to Z

Empress Violet — Tue, 04 Oct 2011 07:32:25 +0000

Entertain Us

It will not be a surprise to you to find out that I have some very naughty girlfriends. Ladies who are involved in the fetish lifestyle in a variety of manners. Owning slaves & submissives, swingers, CFNM couples, play parties. These ladies look to me to provide some unique entertainment for them. And this month…tag…you’re it! *grin*

I told the ladies that you will be coming over for a special party. What you do not realize is that you are the entertainment! Stripped naked, except for a stylish collar with D-ring; I pose you strategically on a low platform in the entryway of my home. In a position that is ridiculous and difficult to maintain. And yet, maintain you shall. Or else! What do I mean by that? Read on!

Make Us Laugh

When I give you an order and you do not follow it, that means you are asking for the fun to be bumped up! I may have you stand in the center of the table as a centerpiece for my girlfriends and I to enjoy through our meal. You standing there, rigid, with orders to remain rigid without touching yourself until dinner is over. Or perhaps we have you hold your pose while we hurl small penis humiliation your way for an hour or so.

And then I may have you crawl behind me into the living room, hop up onto a large leather ottoman for the real entertainment. I hand each lady a pretty satin ribbon in a pastel color and instruct them to tie a dainty bow around your girly giggle stick. You end up looking like an Easter basket. *laughing*

Then we have you pose for us in all sorts of embarrassing poses. Hold completely still while you are touched randomly by our perfectly pedicured feet. Imagine the feel of our soft, beautiful feet moving over your flesh. I can almost feel you shiver. If you move, you get spanked. Over my knee, bare assed, while each lady has her turn paddling your naked hiney. With we ladies laughing hysterically all the while!

Humiliation for Free

Starting on October 6th and continuing through October 31st, each day we will post a “Letter of the Day” on www.thedailycock.com. If your last name starts with that letter, you get a free 10 minute phone sex call with the Mistress of your choice! You must be a previous caller of the service as of Midnight Eastern Time on October 5th in order to take advantage of this promotion.

Now here’s the trick – you’ll have to visit www.thedailycock.com to find out the letter of the day. Our lovely dispatchers will not be able to tell you, so you can’t call in and ask if it’s your day. You’ll need to tell the dispatcher that you’re calling in for the Letter of the Day promo in order to get your call.

The Letter of the Day will be posted right after Midnight Eastern Time each day, and you can call to claim your call anytime that day.

A Red Face Awaits

It has never been easier to get humiliated by a beautiful Mistress and her kinky girlfriends! So what are you waiting for? In 10 minutes I can make the blood rush to your face, your cock stand at attention, your head spin, and have you gasping. Do not miss your day to get a free 10 minute call with me, or your favorite Mistress.

Need some ideas for a humiliation call, check out the essays in our Phone Sex Library!

The Perfect Feet of Ms Violet

Giving You Phone Fun With a Twist

Empress Violet — Fri, 30 Sep 2011 08:55:05 +0000

Breaking the Mold

Some of you are really stuck in a rut. Guided masturbation is fun. Edging is fabulous. But there are so many exciting fetishes out there to explore. And trying them does not have to mean jumping in the lake and hoping you can swim. No! You can just stick in a toe. Test the fetish water. See if you like it.

I want to explore a couple options with you now. First…do me a favor and relax. Try your best not to judge, or discuss anything just because it is new for you. Because I need you to have an open mind when you read past this point right here.

Trying Chastity

One of my very favorite fetishes is chastity. Before you run screaming from my blog, remember you are keeping an open mind for me. *smile* While it is true that I have personal house slave in open ended chastity, and that I have had a few phone slaves who opted for that, there are many other options before that one.

When you call me for your first chastity assignment, I will ask you what the longest period of time you have ever gone without a release is. Most of my chastity callers answer to that was something like, “One day.” After I stop laughing at your stroke-a-holic tendencies, I will kindly suggest that you consider doing one full day of chastity for me. Just 24 hours.

Can You Do It?

Most guys think about it and realize how reasonable that request is. I will not tell you it will be easy. Odds are that you will have a crazy serious need to stroke. But if you are determined to make it through and please me, you will do it. Depending on your current stroking habits, I may allow you to stroke but not edge, or edge a few times, or no touching at all. That part is quite individual.

When you report to me that you made it through, I will congratulate you. We will talk about how you fared. You will feel quite proud of yourself. Then I will pounce upon that moment to challenge you to 2 or 3 days of chastity. It is so interesting how things twist and soon your desire to stay chaste to please me becomes more of a driving force than your desire for release.

Male chastity phone sex can be as intense as being a chastity slave in person! Something to think about

Present Bottom

When was the last time you had a real spanking? Perhaps when you were a little boy, or sissy, and got in trouble at home. Your mother put you over her knee and spanked you till you cried. Now think about this grown up version. I tell you that you have been a very naughty man. You must be punished! I pull down your pants, pull you over my knee, hold your down with my soft hand, and tell you precisely what I intend to do to you.

While my hand is running in circles around your cute little ass, I tell you that you must be disciplined. That I cannot have you sassing me. Flaunting the rules in my face. No respecting Mistress would allow such a thing. All the while knowing you are breathlessly anticipating the chastisement to come.

Feel the Burn

Finally my hand stopping rubbing, pulls back and lands with a satisfying “Smack!” on your right cheek. You gasp in astonishment at actually being spanked. How dare I? Why…you are a grown man! *laughing* Yes, you are. That is precisely what makes this so highly erotic. I begin to rhythmically land smacks on your cheeks, alternating sides. Hearing you try to stifle a moan, feeling your cock grow rigid with excitement between my thighs. I stop at times to run my hand lightly over your red, heated ass cheeks. Reminding you that I am doing this for your own good.

I am sure that you are seeing the possibilities in a scenario such as this. You may be wondering how you can be effectively spanked by phone. No worries. I have it down to an art. All you really need is your hand, but if you have a paddle of any type, it will make it much easier to administer the blows. Even common household items work well. Calling from a hotel? No problem…that is what remote controls are for. *wink* A spanking session can be as fun and teasing, or as serious and lengthy as you desire.

I Challenge You

Step outside your usual phone sex formula and dabble in a bit of chastity or spanking. Hopefully I do not completely blow your mind when I tell you that combining the two is unbelievably hot! Have you ever tried either of these fetish activities? I would really enjoy hearing about your experiences! And…every person who leaves a relevant comment for me about this blog posting will receive the full, UNCENSORED, version of the pic of me shown above. So be sure to use the email you want it sent to!

Dominating Men Worldwide

Empress Violet — Wed, 21 Sep 2011 07:04:12 +0000

Heads Up UK Guys

The incredible Mistresses of LDW are now available to you on a variety of delectable domination sites. Geared just for the guys in the UK. This is exciting news. You might want to take out your willy and start stroking while you read on. *wink*

As you know, we specialize in domination and fetish calls. A wonderful little niche in the world of phone sex. And we do it better than anyone else in the world. Let me tell you about our new UK sites and what they offer.

Fem Dom Fun

First up is FemDomCalls.co.uk. This site offers a tempting array of lovely Mistresses with life experience in the arts of Domination. When you do not have a partner to dominate you, cannot visit a Pro Domme…or not nearly often enough…you can call one of us to take control. All of us are real American women who truly enjoy dominating men. It is more than a sexual pleasure for us, it is part of who we are.

I treat my phone and texting slaves as I do my personal slaves. Taking the time to get to know them well, listen to their fantasies, their needs, and desires. Then I make each session as “real” as possible. Using the toys in my own Mistress bag as you use your own so you get the full effect. Weaving so many details into fantasies and role plays that you would swear I am there.

Another Portal

We also now have another site where you can find the finest phone sex domination available. It is called FemDomByPhone.co.uk. This is another site that is geared toward you guys who supervise others all day…telling them what to do…in control of so much all day long. You come to this site to hand that control over to one, or more, of the beautifully dominant women featured.

It is like a mini-vacation where you are absolved of all decisions. All of them! You just sink to your knees, bow your head, and follow orders. It really is that simple. Whether your tastes run to being told what to do, humiliation, chastity, or the more intense activities such as spanking, figging, caning, flogging, ass training, and full fledged slave training…it is all available. Every day, 24 hours of the day, 7 days a week!

For You Sissies

We have not left you out. Oh no! This next site I am going to tell you about is for you sissies, cross-dressers, and sexual adventurers. It is called FemPhone.co.uk. Put yourself in our soft, capable hands and we will turn you into the girl of your dreams. Or just call to have some time together as girlfriends.

Shaving, waxing, pedicures, manicures. And that is just getting you ready to dress! Then comes the silky, lacy lingerie, hosiery, high heels, pretty dresses, skirts, blouses. The mind fairly spins with the fashion possibilities! And you will be the star. All of my attention focused on turning you into a pretty girl.

Perhaps you already know your sissy style and preferences. I can handle that as well. Whisper your secrets in my ear. I WILL use them against you. Weaving delicious fantasies and role plays that involve you using your mouth to suck, your ass to please. Turning you into a right proper slut! That sort of thing is a thrill for me.

Building Bridges

Consider me your special fetish Ambassador. Here to greet you and welcome you to the world of high end fetish phone sex. You may have called phone sex before, but until you call an LDW site, you do not know how extraordinary it can be. So much more than simply dialing a number to find release. I assure you, you will find so much more. We have a variety of ways for you UK guys to session with us.

We also have a social site that is like heaven for fetish guys. It is free and easy to register. You will find over 3,000 like-minded members, including the most spectacular women in the phone sex industry today. Enjoy photos, audios, a chat room, sexy blogs, polls, special interest fetish groups, and an Audio Store. When you step inside, look me up and ask me to be your first friend. I would love that!

I look forward to answering my phone and hearing even more foreign accents now that you know about our new sites. Give me a call and let’s have some fun with your favorite fetish!

Celebrating With Your Mistress

Empress Violet — Fri, 19 Aug 2011 00:41:29 +0000

Celebrate With Me!

It’s Party Time

August is a special month for your enchanting Mistress. Coming up rapidly is my two year anniversary with LDW! On August 20th, it will be two full years since I signed in and took my very first erotic call. I remember that afternoon vividly. I was excited and curious as to what my first day of calls would bring.

Now it is two full years later and a good number of you who called me my first week, or month here…are still calling me. We have come to know each other well and formed a meaningful Mistress/s relationship. Just imagine what it will be like a year or two om now!

The Journey of Life

Every day I look forward to checking my email, and catching up with my friends on Enchantrix Empire. When 5 pm, Arizona time, rolls around and I sign in for calls…I am smiling and wondering who I will get to talk with this time. Happily reflecting on the joys of doing what I do now, instead of the myriad of careers I might have chosen.

Reason Two

August has always been a special month in my life. You see…my birthday is August 28th and I always celebrate that. But this year is a big one. Your phone sex Mistress will be turning 30! I intend to be the sexiest, kinkiest 30 year old in Arizona. *wink*

This year’s celebration includes a trip to Laughlin, Nevada for a concert, a comedy show, some boating, skidoo fun, and upscale dining. My best girl friend will be with me. She always adds to the fun with her giggles, flirting, and beauty. But that little trip is actually happening a few days AFTER my birthday.

About My Birthday

On my actual birthday, a Sunday this year, I will be here in Phoenix. Meeting with dear friends at an upscale eatery to celebrate my day of birth with French cuisine and a glass, or two, of bubbly. Then I will be off for the night as I have a second celebration planned at a private kinky gathering. You know I would not leave the kink out of my special day. *wink*

Quite a few of you have already asked me what I want for my birthday. That is easy! I have an Amazon Wish List set up. Everything on that list is something I chose, put on my list, and really do want. So you can peruse that list and know that if you choose to surprise me with anything from it, I will be delighted!

And please do not feel like you are required to give me anything. Just being you, and having you in my life adds sunshine to my world!

Let’s Start Now

Why wait? I say let’s start the celebration now! I will be here every night, except the 28th, through August. There will be a candle burning; probably a Himalayan salt lamp plugged in too! Lovely, romantic, mood lighting to start things off for some kinky phonesex, and if you sing happy birthday to me, you will put the biggest smile on my face!

Do you have something to celebrate this month? Share it with me here in Comments.

Lusting for Custom Audios

Empress Violet — Mon, 01 Aug 2011 04:08:26 +0000

From My Lips to Your Ears

Fantasies Are So Personal

LDW has our free erotic audio sites, and they are fabulous to peruse. Thousands of sexy, teasing audios on TeaseMania. Just as many enticing, free feminization audios to listen to at GetGirlie. Those are shorter, R-rated and aimed at a large number of listeners.

But you have your own fantasies. These involve details that rock your world. This can be the setting for your fantasy, the specific people involved, and of course the erotic activities that happen throughout it. So you can understand why having your personal fantasy available to listen to any time you wish would be a great idea.

Details to Consider

Hearing your name in an audio. Over and over again. Very personalizing.
Being called names that make your pulse race
Having your personal fetishes included in detail
Hearing a scorching hot memory from your past come to life
Including names of sexy women you know
Including names of guys with big manly cocks you know
Having every little detail scripted to your tastes

Need More Convincing?

That is easy. You are not the first guy or sissy to wonder what the big deal is about having a custom Mistress audio made for you. I get that. But here is how that scenario tends to play out with my clients.

They call and we have incredibly erotic phone domination calls together…call after call. But being in demand, as I am, it can be a bit difficult getting through to me every time you want me. So I remind them that if you had a custom audio, or two, about their very favorite fantasies…they could listen to it instead of being completely disappointed. It is like a light bulb goes off. Ah ha!

So Reasonable

Perhaps you are thinking that you cannot afford a custom audio. Au contraire. Let’s take a look at it this way. It costs $75 for a 30 minute phone sex call with me. It’s fabulous…memorable…and intensely exciting! But after the 30 minutes it’s over.

Purchase a 10 minute custom audio for $60, plus the cost of writing the script, if you do not wish to write it yourself. Now you have my sultry voice, purring your personal turn ons for a full 10 minutes. And you can listen to it over and over again. A great solution for times when you cannot get through to me, or cannot call me. A bargain for certain!

Give it Some Thought

Now that you know how doable it is to have your very own custom audio, give some thought as to what you would love to hear. It’s so easy to start the process. And before you know it…your custom audio will be waiting for you in your email. Crying out…”Open me! Listen to me now!”

Enter to Win Sexy Photos

Empress Violet — Mon, 23 May 2011 08:08:21 +0000

Find Out How to See More of Me

From Now Through May

I am running a special contest here on my blog. Entering is easy and fun! But first, I want to tell you about the prize. Actually, prizes plural. Because every single entry will get at least one prize. And the prizes are very special, very revealing pics of myself. Photos way too sexy to post on my blogs.

How Hot Are We Talking?

Recently I had a whole new photo shoot. I had the photographer take some pics that I knew I could never post for public viewing. I think you know what I mean. A blouse unbuttoned a bit here…a skirt pulled up a tad there…panties down. And on top of that, I was able to procure the rest of the shots taken in my initial photo shoots for LDW. More sizzling hot poses to use in private as I see fit.

How to Enter

If you would like to win one of these incredibly sexy pics of your favorite Mistress, just leave a relevant comment on this blog entry. That gets one one sexy pic. Leave a relevant comment on any other blog posting of mine…this blog or any of my others (see list below) and you win an additional sexy pic for every relevant comment you leave on each different posting. Imagine the masturbation phonesex we can have with you viewing these very special, private photos!

www.ilovepantyboys.com

www.YourKinkAdvisor.com

www.PhoneSexForCouples.com

When to Enter

Start now! You have from now till midnight EST on May 31st 2011 to enter. No limit to the number of entries per person. I have about 1,100 new pics to choose from. So go crazy! Impress me with your determination to be my biggest winner in the contest.

This will be an incredible 10 day tease and delay for you.

The Results

You will receive your super sexy pics by email after May 31, 2011. So if you want your pics sent to an email other than the one that shows up when you leave your comment, send me a quick email with your preferred email address.

I will be posting the name (in secret code, probably only known to myself and the winner) here on my blog. It will be included in my first June posting here. So not only will you get more private sexy photos of me than anyone else…you will also get your 15 minutes of fame. *smile* Please your favorite fem dom Mistress by entering again and again!

Worshipping Perfect Feet

Empress Violet — Sat, 16 Apr 2011 03:59:59 +0000

The Art of Foot Worship

If you are already a foot guy, you know precisely that I mean by the importance of a woman having perfect feet. By that I mean feet that get a lot of attention. Regular pedicures, fresh polish in a pretty shade, callus free. But there is more to it than that. Some of it is admired without a man even realizing how much he is drawn to it for foot worship.

Going Deeper

It is also the shape of a woman’s foot. The curve of the arch, straight toes that descend in size from the big toe, slender ankles and pretty skin. Think about it and I believe you will agree that these things, though more subtle, have every bit as much to do with what draws you to a specific foot.

My Feet Specifically

So many of you ask…yes…I do get regular pedicures. I also have my feet massaged every other day. Massaged thoroughly. This is done either by a professional at a spa, or by one of my live-in house slaves. He relishes that chore beyond all others and realizes what a privilege it is.

I enjoy using my feet in a tease and delay session. Running my soft feet up your thighs…pressing my highly arched feet together sole to sole around your cock…running one toe gently around on the tip of your cock, feeling your pre-cum getting my toe so slippery and wet. And feet can be extremely erotic in a guided masturbation session.

Decorating Feet

There are other ways to make feet stand out. No pun intended. I am a major fan of foot and ankle jewelry. Like sweet little toe rings that catch the sun while I am sunbathing or swimming. And beautiful ankle bracelets that show off how slender and tan my ankles are. I like to wear an ankle bracelet every day. Living in Phoenix, the weather allows me to wear sandals just about year round. And I love that!

What You Can Do

You are a creative foot fetish fan. I know you are. You can probably think of some great ways to pay homage to my Princess feet all on your own. Some sweet fans have written odes to my feet. Others have written songs or sent little gifts. The important aspect to me is that it was your idea and you did it because you wanted to. Because you love my feet. I love my feet too. That is why I have such a fondness for shoes, socks and the foot/ankle jewelry. *smile*

Tell me what you have done to praise your favorite female feet? Leave a comment here so my foot fans get some fabulous ideas.

5 Fun Items to Have Your Way With

Empress Violet — Sat, 16 Apr 2011 03:51:30 +0000

Try Them all!

Stretch Your Imagination

You have been stroking for years! You have done guided masturbation till you feel like it’s pretty much “Been there, done that.” Then it’s time to try something new. I suggest you experiment with thrusting your cock into different textures and temperatures. It gives your male member a whole new world of masturbation phone sex to explore.

Start With Appetizers

I am going to lay out my suggestions to you like a meal. So this week we shall start with some appetizers you can thrust into repeatedly:

1. Hummus- Best tried at room temperature. If you want a kick, get hummus with spicy ingredients!

2. Onion Dip- Use it cool to cold. The mixture of creamy sour cream with little pieces of onion will tantalize your cock.

3. Cheese Dip- Heat the jar in the microwave to a warm temperature. Test it with your finger first.

4. Brie Cheese- Heat up a small block of it. Cut a hole through the crust big enough to fit your erect penis through. Stroke into the soft center.

5. Peanut Butter- Get creamy if you want a smooth texture, and crunchy if you want to liven things up.

What Now?

Now that you have your items ready to go, what should you do next? You can do this on a call, in a texting session or certainly my preference…on a webcam call. Of course I want to see you in action! That would really please your femdom Mistress. You can even do this on your own. It will be exciting, feel rather naughty, and make a bit of a mess. So plan some time for cleanup.

After the Fun

Come back and leave a comment about your experience. Your enchanting Mistress would love to hear how it went for you. What your favorite item was. Stay tuned for 5 fun Entrees to stroke into!

Top Five Reasons to Edge

Empress Violet — Mon, 28 Feb 2011 08:33:58 +0000

Let's Walk That Edge Together

What is Edging

When you get right to the edge of an orgasm, that is known as Edging. It is also known as Delay. On a call with me this works in one of two ways: either you get to the edge and I make you stop stroking until you are calmed down enough to start stroking again; or I have you use a much less stimulating method of touch on your cock until you calm down. The method I choose to use really depends on you.

How Your Skills Fit In

If you take a while to get to the first edge, you can likely handle stroking very lightly while you are on edge. This can be intensely exciting to do. Also, if you show me that you can handle that, I will feel comfortable about having you stroke continuously through our session. If, on the other hand, you get to the edge quickly I will know to have you stop touching immediately…clasp your hands together behind your back or behind your head until you calm down.

Deep calming breaths work wonders for this.

The Top 5 Reasons

* The act of edging leads to stronger, more sustained orgasms…a HUGE reason to become a fan of it!

* Edging trains a cock to last longer during vaginal or anal sex…your lady will love you for it!

* Just practicing it is great for your discipline…very important if you are a submissive/slave/sissy

* Edging with no orgasm helps you build up a bigger load…great for you cum sluts!

* Done long enough, it can be a spiritual experience…worth working up to!

How Long

That really depends on you and…once again…your skill. When some guys begin this practice with me, they can only withstand maybe 15 or 20 minutes of tease and delay. Others have done this for a while and can hang in with my cock control for an hour or more. And some guys are naturally good at it and can do a long session right from the start. Very impressive. What amazes me is the number of men who have never tried it.

Should You Try It

Only if you are interested in seeing how strong your orgasm can get. Only if you are turned on by the idea of a beautiful young Mistress giving you creative, intense masturbation instructions and delaying your release as long as you can stand it. As for me…it excites me so much that I get wet just writing about it. This is an erotic activity I have spent YEARS perfecting. All that remains now is for you to put your cock in my capable hands.

So tell me readers…have you ever edged? I would love for you to leave a comment about your experience with that. To say it is a hot topic, is a vast understatement.

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