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Showing True Devotion

Empress Violet — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 07:38:17 +0000

Am I a lucky woman, or what??

Outstanding Examples

Every now and then one of my callers does something that is truly blog worthy. There were actually a few of those this week. I decided to start with a few who showed devotion above and beyond to their enchanting Mistress.

Thank you to all of you who sent me birthday greetings, called to say “Happy Birthday Mistress”, sang happy birthday to me, sent me gifts, and posted birthday salutations on the Enchanted Empire. You all added to the magic of my day and made it truly special. You really know how to put a smile on your Fem Domme‘s face and I thank you!!

Neither Rain, Nor Snow, Nor Hurricane

A good number of my callers had to batten down the hatches in preparation for Hurricane Irene. I thank you for letting me know that you were okay. Your Mistress was worried! Though the storm was not as severe as predicted…Yay for that!…weather is unpredictable by nature. I know a good deal of you were left with no power for days.

One of my storm hit fans, P.O.S., braved high winds, blowing debris, and general chaos to greet me as the clock struck midnight on my birthday. I was so touched and impressed with his dedication to me and the fervor with which he exhibits it. Just plain sweet!

Amazing Gifts

My little tease toy sent me a travel laptop so I can do calls and stay in touch even when I am out of town! I appreciate that so much. A few of you know that I have two other trips coming up in the next two months, so this gift was a timely little miracle.

There is a very special pet, Adam, who has been calling me since shortly after I started with LDW. He showers me with beautiful gifts throughout the year. For my birthday he really went all out and I am still receiving birthday gifts from him! Thank you so much pet! You know how to make me feel truly spoiled. And it is more than gifts. It is also your sweet emails, and messages on FB.

Glowing Praise

Then there is my good boy art. He has taken to writing glowing recommendations for me. “Rate My Call” every time. It is not just that he writes a recommendation. It is WHAT he writes. From reading what he has to say, you would think I am the ultimate phone sex Goddess. Those recommendations have been leaving me floating on air! Thank you art!

Just a Sample

There have been so many more examples. Poems, beautiful emails, sweet words on radio shows (Yes…I mean you Cindy!), other gifts, and just wonderful men and sissies who I feel so close with. Thank you ALL for being a part of my life and making this world brighter by being in it. *hugs*

Every one of you has shown true devotion. I want you to know that I am equally devoted to you!

Princess Violet

Celebrating With Your Mistress

Empress Violet — Fri, 19 Aug 2011 00:41:29 +0000

Celebrate With Me!

It’s Party Time

August is a special month for your enchanting Mistress. Coming up rapidly is my two year anniversary with LDW! On August 20th, it will be two full years since I signed in and took my very first erotic call. I remember that afternoon vividly. I was excited and curious as to what my first day of calls would bring.

Now it is two full years later and a good number of you who called me my first week, or month here…are still calling me. We have come to know each other well and formed a meaningful Mistress/s relationship. Just imagine what it will be like a year or two om now!

The Journey of Life

Every day I look forward to checking my email, and catching up with my friends on Enchantrix Empire. When 5 pm, Arizona time, rolls around and I sign in for calls…I am smiling and wondering who I will get to talk with this time. Happily reflecting on the joys of doing what I do now, instead of the myriad of careers I might have chosen.

Reason Two

August has always been a special month in my life. You see…my birthday is August 28th and I always celebrate that. But this year is a big one. Your phone sex Mistress will be turning 30! I intend to be the sexiest, kinkiest 30 year old in Arizona. *wink*

This year’s celebration includes a trip to Laughlin, Nevada for a concert, a comedy show, some boating, skidoo fun, and upscale dining. My best girl friend will be with me. She always adds to the fun with her giggles, flirting, and beauty. But that little trip is actually happening a few days AFTER my birthday.

About My Birthday

On my actual birthday, a Sunday this year, I will be here in Phoenix. Meeting with dear friends at an upscale eatery to celebrate my day of birth with French cuisine and a glass, or two, of bubbly. Then I will be off for the night as I have a second celebration planned at a private kinky gathering. You know I would not leave the kink out of my special day. *wink*

Quite a few of you have already asked me what I want for my birthday. That is easy! I have an Amazon Wish List set up. Everything on that list is something I chose, put on my list, and really do want. So you can peruse that list and know that if you choose to surprise me with anything from it, I will be delighted!

And please do not feel like you are required to give me anything. Just being you, and having you in my life adds sunshine to my world!

Let’s Start Now

Why wait? I say let’s start the celebration now! I will be here every night, except the 28th, through August. There will be a candle burning; probably a Himalayan salt lamp plugged in too! Lovely, romantic, mood lighting to start things off for some kinky phonesex, and if you sing happy birthday to me, you will put the biggest smile on my face!

Do you have something to celebrate this month? Share it with me here in Comments.

Missing Your Mistress

Empress Violet — Thu, 21 Jul 2011 06:39:00 +0000

Waving Goodbye

Not forever…just for 5 days. Your favorite sensual Mistress is headed to Chicago for a family visit. Though I will not be available for calls during this times, you can check the Schedule page of this blog for details on my availability.

What To Do

While I am gone, you can read all of my blogs. I have 4 of them! See the list below. You will find sexy photos, interesting postings, fun ideas, and provoking thoughts!

~ This one. You are already here! I have about 2 years worth of posts to read, audios, and all sorts of specialty pages too!

~ www.YourKinkAdvisor.com An advice column blog

~ www.ILovePantyBoys.com I really do!

~ www.PhoneSexForCouples.com Something to consider *wink*

There’s Also This

I used to host a weekly talk show on Talkshoe. It was called The Voyeur Window. You can still listen to the shows at Talkshoe and at BBS Radio.

Along with the show, I have a blog. It is www.TheVoyeurWindow.com Check it out to read about sexy topics, see more erotic pics, and have naughty fun!

Listen for Hours

Did you know that I have HUNDREDS of audios posted on our free audio sites? It’s true! You can listen for free at TeaseMania and at GetGirlie. This alone could keep you busy until I get back home!

Get to Know Me Better

My friend, Ms Harper, recently wrote in her blog about how you can tell a lot about a Mistress just by looking at her Wish List. She has a point. So I invite you to take a tour through my Wish List. See what I am into. Get a read on my tastes and interests. I enjoy doing this with the other Mistresses. *wink*

Coming Back

Never fear, I will be back! So think of me lots…keep yourself busy…and call me next week! I will be SO ready for naughty fun with you boys and sissies!

XOX

Reasons For Using Phone Sex

Empress Violet — Sat, 28 May 2011 20:19:46 +0000

A Mistress...and so much more!

Why Men Call Phone Sex

I was thinking about all of the reasons that men have for calling the Mistresses here at LDW. They vary every bit as much as the men do. The stereotypical relationship of having a Mistress to control you, experiencing female domination is definitely one of the more popular ones. But I want to talk about some of the other reasons guys call.

My wonderful caller, Paul, and I were talking about this subject last week. He told me why he calls and I felt his reasons would strike a chord for other men. Rather than going on about it, I will let Paul tell you in his own words.

Discovering LDW

Just about a year ago, while in the middle of some really bad personal problems I made a big discovery. That was LDW and Vox Erotic. While looking at the pictures and reading the bios, one really stood out to me…that was Ms Violet. Then I sent the e-mail that would change my life.

You Can’t Rush a Relationship

Thru a dozen or so e-mails and IM’s, discussing all kinds of things from sex, kinks, music, to how I was doing in my own life, Ms Violet was there for everything I had to say. I remember our first call, just talking and really getting to know one another. The time went by so fast, and talking to her seemed like I was talking to an old friend. The connection and bond we had made in that short amount of time (a month I think) has become very important.

Building a Connection

The level of our connection has grown over the last year. I have told her things I do not think I could tell my closest friend. It’s not because it is a voice on the other end of the phone that I will never meet. It actually goes deeper than that, and something I have been missing in my personal physical relationships.

Unexpected Benefits

But there is so much more that I have gained from this relationship, because that’s what it is you know. Besides a sense of pride and self worth…I have gained a best friend, a confidant, and a lover…yes that’s right I said it. No matter what happens in my life from here on forward the bond Ms Violet and I share will always be there and continue to grow, and is not something I would ever want to give up.

Thank you Ms Violet

Written by

Paul G. (EmpressViolets_LordVader)

Breaking the Mold

Ms Ally was the visionary who created LDW and the EnchantrixEmpire. It was her idea of what a phone sex company could be that got us here, and will continue to improve year by year. She ensures that the LDW Mistresses are far beyond the average phone sex worker. And that means the experience you, as the caller, receive is far beyond what you may have experienced elsewhere.

When the Mistresses…the women themselves…are more highly educated, more sophisticated, creative, fully experienced in life…you cannot help but get more out of your relationship with your Mistress. As many of you are aware, my former profession was as a behavioral health professional. Here at LDW I find myself wearing many different hats and loving it. Mistress, friend, lover, confidant, confessional, sister, mother, advisor, a listening ear, a spiritual influence, and sometimes simply a shoulder to cry on.

Satisfying My Curiosity

So tell me. What is your reason for calling me, or sexy texting with me? I would love to hear what brought you to LDW, why you chose me as your Mistress, and what it is you have gotten out of our relationship. You can leave a comment here, or email me with a more extended reply that you will allow me to post on my blog.

Mood Spankings

Empress Violet — Mon, 13 Sep 2010 02:21:46 +0000

So Many Reasons

Spankings are not always a punishment. Far from it! I have discovered that submissives/slaves/sissies need spanking for a whole variety of reasons. And also that each person can react very differently to the experience of being spanked. It pleases me immensely to give a spanking of any type. Let’s cover a few of them here.

Naughtiness

Sometimes a submissive (you can substitute “slave” or “sissy”) is sassy or just plain disobedient. For that they may be given a spanking as punishment, or part of their training. But I have yet to meet a sub who does not find it erotic to receive a spanking from their Mistress. So is it really a punishment? It is if I use a paddle and spank harder than usual.

Calming

I have had subs who tend to get so full of energy or anxiety that they are fairly bouncing off the walls. When I note this, I will give them a spanking to calm them. It involves spanking with my hand, slowly increasing the rate and intensity. Paying close attention to their reaction; Breathing, body language, what they say. Adjusting the spanking as I see them relaxing under my touch. I became aware of this effect quite by accident years ago, but it has come in handy many times.

Just Plain Fun

Years ago I was spanking a fairly new sub of mine. It was not the first time I spanked him, but this was the first time he began to laugh during the spanking. My immediate reaction was to feel rather indignant. A sub laughing at his Mistress? Oh, I do not think so! So I spanked harder. My sub’s reaction to that was simply to laugh harder. This went on until I was wailing on his ass and he was laughing so hard he had tears rolling down his face. It ended with both of us laughing, me exhausted and him with an extremely red butt. Who knew? I have encountered this reaction a few times since then. Most curious.

Imsomnia Cure

When a sub has trouble sleeping, or even getting tired enough to think of sleeping, a spanking can be just the thing. I have them lie down on their stomach, with a couple of pillows under their groin. This props the bottom up very nicely. I tell them to close their eyes and begin to spank softly and rhythmically. If I note them calming, I feel confident that they will respond well to my special insomnia treatment. Between every 2o spanks, or so, I rub my hand over their increasingly warm cheeks…very soothingly. As time goes by, I spank harder. I have never had to spank longer than 30 minutes to get them to drop off into a very deep sleep. And…I can keep spanking HARD without them waking up. Are you surprised by this?

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Spilling Secrets

Empress Violet — Thu, 01 Jul 2010 00:51:48 +0000

Closer...Come Closer

Telling it Like it Is

I am an amazing Dominant woman with powers you can only begin to understand. But there is a power I don’t have…at least not until I get to know you really well…and that is reading minds. Most of you are great about telling me what you enjoy so I can begin weaving a scene that leaves you breathless. However…

It’s Not Nice to Hold Out on Ms Violet

When a person calls me and says something vague like “I just want to be controlled”, or “I like everything”, it leaves me in this Mistress limbo. Hmmm, should I put him in extreme bondage and make him suffer like a pooch, or do I spend a lot of time pulling bits of info out of him like a dentist pulling teeth. *laughing* You see what I am saying here. If you want a mind-blowing guided masturbation session…say so!

I’m Not Alone in This

I read a lot of my fellow Mistress’s blogs and saw a recent posting by Ms Meredith on this same subject. The most difficult calls are not those that require detailed descriptions of sissy fashions, setting the scene, or a myriad of Mistress techniques. It is those where the caller says next to nothing. Make a few notes before you call, if you are nervous. I am SO easy to talk with. I promise.

This is For My Regulars

When my phone rings and I pick it up, it is like playing a little game of phone roulette. I have no idea who is on the other end. You guys and sissies may not know how much I enjoy talking with you. I hear your voice and my face lights up. My smile becomes wider as we talk. You see…I look forward to hearing from you again. My good friend, Ms Tia, agrees with me on that…big time! Can you hear my pleasure in my voice? Let me know…I am very curious.

This week on The Voyeur Window…”Chastity”.

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Getting My Attention

Empress Violet — Wed, 23 Jun 2010 18:17:05 +0000

Show and Tell Time

A Tale of Tributes

I have been asked a lot of questions about my Wish List. “Mistress, do you know that you have a $3,100 pro camcorder on your list?” Why yes…I do. I put it there. “Do you want me to get you something from your list Mistress Violet?” Silly one…what woman does not want the things she wants? “Am I expected to buy you things Ms Violet”? No. You are not. But…

Catch My Virtual Eye

Being a cyber Mistress, I have a lot of men throwing lines at me; telling me how beautiful I am; how they want to worship kneeling at my feet. And I know that those same men are likely using the same tired lines on whoever will listen. I equate this with being in a club and having a guy making the rounds to girl after girl…hitting on her. Someone who steps outside of that mold by buying me a drink has my attention. I know that he is focusing on ME.

Catch My Drift

By the same thinking…those of you who send me a tribute or buy me some little trinket from my Wish List do get my attention. I see that you are truly interested; attracted to me; and not just going from girl to girl. You will find that I am kind enough to have small priced items on my list such as candy, ankle bracelets, CD’s, books and tea. That gesture from you, even if a small or inexpensive item, gains my attention. It tells me that, amongst the many Mistresses, you want to get to know ME. Earning you my exclusive attention, for a while at least. You can always send even a small gift card to my email, violet@enchantrixempire.com, for immediate attention. A really easy way to let Me know you are serious.

Enter the Castle

One last note. If you have not yet discovered our new Enchantrix Empire…it is time to drop by the castle to register. It is FREE and easy. You get a profile, can post pics, exchange messages, participate in groups and polls. All of we Mistresses are there waiting for you, including your adored Empress Violet. Click here to check it out!

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