Nothing Like a Little Denial to Rev Things Up

Preconceived Notions

Some guys think that chastity automatically means never having release again.  Being locked into a cock cage for life.  That is not the case.  Just about anybody can benefit from some type of chastity assignment or challenge.

Hardcore

Just because my live-in house slaves choose to be in permanent chastity, does not mean that I expect you to do the same.  That is their choice and, as their Mistress, I support it.  Actually…I encourage it!  A few of my phone slaves have requested a year of chastity.  If that excites you, let me know.  Let’s talk about how that works.

For most guys I recommend starting with something more easily attained.  If you have never been in chastity before, I will likely give you a week or two week assignment.  You will have daily stroking/edging assignments and be required to email me regularly as to your progress.

The Next Step

Depending on how you do with your first assignment, I will either give you assignments to build up your endurance and willpower, or I may give you a new chastity assignment.  Something that provides you more of a challenge.

Still Too Much?

No problem.  If you are a stroker-boy, it can be a definite thrill to be in a half day of chastity.  Wanting to stroke so badly, knowing you are refraining to please me.  Watching the clock…counting the minutes till sweet release.  Or being promised release and then denied to your exquisite delight.

Birthday Gifts

You have asked me what I want for my birthday.  Besides the biggies like…oh…a clean world environment and spiritual enlightenment…I do have a Wish List.  Of course everything on the list is something I saw, made me go”Oooooh…pretty!”.  But I have tried to make this easier for you by prioritizing items that I want most by marking them “highest”.  So when you look at my Wish List, you can sort them by priority now.  I hope that helps.  And thank you for being so sweet!

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Tell Me What you Need

So Use It

The Details

Even if you can just say “I want guided masturbation“, or “I enjoy cuckold fantasies“.  At least that gives me a good idea of your brand of fun.  I will be able to run with that and give you a very memorable call.  But if you call me and say “I just want to do whatever you like”, don’t be surprised if I test that by suggesting you try my new strap-on, “Big Jim”.  *laughing*  The reality is that this is your call…I want you to enjoy yourself.  Making you do things that please me does nothing if I don’t think you are also into it.

How Important

Communications are crucial to all interactions.   Stating what you want, what you don’t want.  Or guess what?  You could easily get a lot of things you really don’t want.  Even with great communications, things can go awry.  Take my upcoming birthday party.  One week away now.  I stated that I would like a laid-back celebration at the house with my closest friends.  As of today there are over 40 people coming and it has morphed into this sort of Indonesian luau pool party affair.

The Bottom Line

If you do a call and feel you did not get precisely what you wanted…take a moment to reflect on what you asked for.  How much detail did you give your Mistress.  Did you clearly express your needs, your turn-offs, your triggers?  If not, and I am your Mistress, I invite you to give it another try.  Let’s talk about what worked and what did not.  Because I am not interested in giving you a so-so call.   I want it to be mind-blowing!!!

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Being My Slave is a Spiritual Experience

The Connection

Something I have known for a long time is that for me…the connection between myself and my slaves is more than erotic and intense.  It is a spiritual one as well.  Perhaps that is a natural state to occur when two people meld on every possible level and it reaches a point of intensity that few have experienced.

My Thoughts on This

I have been giving this a lot of thought.  Due to my personal spiritual journey, it seems inevitable to me that my relationships with my slaves, submissives and sissies should become somewhat spiritual by nature.   Though I did not attend seminary like my friend Ms Holly did,  I certainly gave it a lot of thought.  Only my plan had not been to attach myself to a specific religion, but to further my ability to help people as I go about my life.  But I discovered something.

My Enlightening

I was already helping people mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually.  When I became an Enchantrix Empress I quickly realized that I am helping people in a myriad of ways just taking calls here.  Sometimes it is simply a release of your physical need.  Other times I am someone to listen and, if needed, give you some thoughts on what you are going through.   When it comes to my slaves, submissives and sissies…I find that we become connected at a level you feel even spiritually.

Important Info

If you have not visited our new Enchantrix Empire, you need to check it out.  This is our social network and it’s a blast.  It is free and easy to join.  You get a profile, can send messages and IM’s, participate in polls and groups, set up a blog and get to know a lot of fabulous people.  Also…you may not know that I have a talkshow with my friend Mistress Jane.  It is called The Voyeur Window and it airs every Thursday at 7 pm EST.  Check it out here on our blog.

Upcoming Schedule Change

I will be taking off the entire day of Saturday, August 28th.  Why?  Because it is my birthday and there is a big party being planned to celebrate.  I will tell you more about that later.  But mark your calendar to call me before or after the 28th!   As you know, I don’t often take an entire day off.  But I feel this warrants it.  *wink*

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Kneel before me slave

The slave in You

You come to me, wanting to be Dominated, but not sure of the precise form you wish that to take.  “Just take control of me Mistress“.  I smile, because I can sense your deep seated need to submit.  Smiling down at you, I look deep into your soul.  Reading what you are.  Sometimes, like my slave jeff, you come to me intending to be a submissive.   But I see a slave boy crying to get out and serve.   I mentioned it to him early in his training and was so very pleased when he came to me offered himself to me as my slave.   He has chosen to be my sex slave.  And a delicious little morsel he is!

Coffee, Tea, or Me?

Sometimes a submissive comes to me and immediately expresses the desire to be my sissy slave.   Begging to be dressed in some sort of maid’s uniform and sent out to service.  Sometimes it is a saucy French maid uniform, like my sissy slave stephen, who is living the dream big time in his personal life!  Other sissies want a staid British maid uniform.  But they all want to serve.  Drink, appetizers, blow jobs and more!  Little sissy slave stephen is doing it all!

How to Apply

First…how NOT to apply.  Do not offer yourself to me via IM or email.  You may certainly introduce yourself in those manners, but it requires getting to know each other a bit to become Mistress and slave.   So call me or set up a sexy texting session.  Let’s talk about your needs, your experiences and what you believe you need at this point.  One step at a time little one.

Keeping Your Place

Once you have been accepted as my slave, it requires effort on your part to remain my slave.  That means staying in touch regularly.  Calling when you can to discuss your progress, obtain new assignments, tell me how you are responding mentally and how much you adore me.  *smile*  Emails between calls are an excellent idea.  Especially if you choose to become my chastity slave.  I will need to keep close tabs on your progress.   Like my little “l” who is in one long year of chastity.  He has 7 months to go!

Why I love Owning Slaves

Many men have asked me why I like having slaves.  Simple.  I am a Mistress.  A sensual Mistress.  I enjoy control, and there is no more control to be had than owning a slave.  My friend Ms Holly expounds on this topic well on her blog entry.  She and I both know that guys can be confused about sensual Domination.  We do it all boys.  CBT, bondage, discipline, sensory deprivation…you name it.  But we do it with a sensual style all our own.

The Mystery Fitflops

Someone gave me a much appreciated pair of thongs, called Fitflops.  Actually I got two pairs the same day.  I know my pet “A” gave one pair to me.  But the other pair arrived without any name attached to it.  I would certainly like to thank you properly.  So if you are the sweet Ms Violet devotee who sent me the other thongs…drop me a line.

Alluring...Intelligent...Creative

Beware!

I will lure you in.  Drawing you softly, sensually into my personal web of desire.  You will find me very easy to talk with.  Comfortable, you will say.  No longer so anxious, you will find yourself telling me your secrets.  Confiding to me your deep desires and needs.   Perhaps it is sucking a cock, becoming a sissy, or being a plaything for a 50 foot woman!   My acceptance of you as you are will feel so good.  You will want more.

Danger!

With my sweet, rather innocent looking face, you think of me as the girl next door.  Perhaps your first crush, or that ingenue secretary in your office.  And in some ways I am:  My caring nature, my soft voice.   Wise for my years, nevertheless…my youth appears in my giggle and my general joie de vivre.  Oh the giggle!  I have heard so much about that.  My friend Ms Holly has an interesting theory on the allure of the giggle.

Warning!

I have been told that I should come with a warning label.  Yes…a label reading something like, “Addictive substance.  May be habit forming.”   Of course you will want more of me.  I am the type of Mistress who cares about her slaves, submissives and sissies.   You will be important to me and you will feel that.   A crucial part of the bond that allows a world class Mistress to get to know her slave/sub/sissy well enough to intuit what they need.   There is no reason that a phone relationship cannot have the intensity you desire.

Caution!

You will really enjoy our conversations.   Sure…I will fill that void you have.  That kinky need…desire…that you called me for originally.  But we will also get to know each other.  You will realize that our session was different than others you may have experienced.  You will want more and that is the moment when you will realize that you are caught in my web of desire.  What a fascinatingly erotic dilemma.   Be honest…why would you want to escape me?

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A Taste of me Everywhere

You Are Curious

You saw my pics.  Then read my bio and became intrigued.  Then you heard my audio and were mesmerized by my sultry voice.  Now you found your way to my blog.   Either this one, or one of my others. And here you discovered a wealth of information about me, my background, and my preferences.  This was no mistake my pet.

Advertising Me

Here at LDW/The Enchantrix Empire we make sure you have a lot of opportunities to get a taste of each Mistress.  And by the time you have seen us, heard us, read about us…you have a pretty good idea of whether we are the right one for you.  That is why some of us like myself, and my good friend Ms Holly, go out of our way to give you lots of little tastes.  And now, with our Click to Call feature, it’s easier than ever to pick up the phone and call!

I Have My Limits

Between calls, writing in my blogs, making audios and hosting my talkshow…I often make myself available to you via Yahoo Messenger chat, emails and on the Enchantrix Empire site.   I am not going to have a session with you in those places.   But I will chat as time allows, find out how your assignment went, ask about your chastity, and generally catch up with you.

A Special Thank You

I want to thank Paul for creating a group on the Enchantrix Empire site that is dedicated to me.  It is called “Visions of Ms Violet“.  What a lovely gesture.  And I thank all of you who have joined that group.  My little stephen, Adam, DC Mike, steph, Ms Olivia, Ms Ally and all of you!   It makes me feel warm and tingly all over every time I visit the group to see what my fans have come up with.  XOX

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Closer...Come Closer

Telling it Like it Is

I am an amazing Dominant woman with powers you can only begin to understand.  But there is a power I don’t have…at least not until I get to know you really well…and that is reading minds.  Most of you are great about telling me what you enjoy so I can begin weaving a scene that leaves you breathless.  However…

It’s Not Nice to Hold Out on Ms Violet

When a person calls me and says something vague like “I just want to be controlled”, or “I like everything”, it leaves me in this Mistress limbo.  Hmmm, should I put him in extreme bondage and make him suffer like a pooch, or do I spend a lot of time pulling bits of info out of him like a dentist pulling teeth.  *laughing*  You see what I am saying here.  If you want a mind-blowing guided masturbation session…say so!

I’m Not Alone in This

I read a lot of my fellow Mistress’s blogs and saw a recent posting by Ms Meredith on this same subject.  The most difficult calls are not those that require detailed descriptions of sissy fashions, setting the scene, or a myriad of Mistress techniques.  It is those where the caller says next to nothing.  Make a few notes before you call, if you are nervous.  I am SO easy to talk with.  I promise.

This is For My Regulars

When my phone rings and I pick it up, it is like playing a little game of phone roulette.  I have no idea who is on the other end.  You guys and sissies may not know how much I enjoy talking with you.  I hear your voice and my face lights up.  My smile becomes wider as we talk.  You see…I look forward to hearing from you again.  My good friend, Ms Tia, agrees with me on that…big time!  Can you hear my pleasure in my voice?  Let me know…I am very curious.

This week on The Voyeur Window…”Chastity”.

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Show and Tell Time

A Tale of Tributes

I have been asked a lot of questions about my Wish List.  “Mistress, do you know that you have a $3,100 pro camcorder on your list?”  Why yes…I do.  I put it there.  “Do you want me to get you something from your list Mistress Violet?”  Silly one…what woman does not want the things she wants?  “Am I expected to buy you things Ms Violet”?  No.  You are not.  But…

Catch My Virtual Eye

Being a cyber Mistress, I have a lot of men throwing lines at me; telling me how beautiful I am; how they want to worship kneeling at my feet.  And I know that those same men are likely using the same tired lines on whoever will listen.  I equate this with being in a club and having a guy making the rounds to girl after girl…hitting on her.  Someone who steps outside of that mold by buying me a drink has my attention.  I know that he is focusing on ME.

Catch My Drift

By the same thinking…those of you who send me a tribute or buy me some little trinket from my Wish List do get my attention.  I see that you are truly interested; attracted to me;  and not just going from girl to girl.  You will find that I am kind enough to have small priced items on my list such as candy, ankle bracelets, CD’s, books and tea.  That gesture from you, even if a small or inexpensive item, gains my attention.  It tells me that, amongst the many Mistresses, you want to get to know ME.  Earning you my exclusive attention, for a while at least.  You can always send even a small gift card to my email, violet@enchantrixempire.com, for immediate attention.  A really easy way to let Me know you are serious.

Enter the Castle

One last note.  If you have not yet discovered our new Enchantrix Empire…it is time to drop by the castle to register.  It is FREE and easy.  You get a profile, can post pics, exchange messages, participate in groups and polls.  All of we Mistresses are there waiting for you, including your adored Empress Violet.  Click here to check it out!

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Oh the Fun We Will Have!

Let Me Tell You About Last Night

A very lovely cross dressing friend of mine called to talk about her favorite wedding dress fantasy.  Three fabulous hours of preparing her for her special moment.  The feel of the fabric, the cut of the gown, her makeup…just so.  I primped and fussed over her and we got totally lost in the moment.   Expect a new audio on getgirlie soon, inspired by her fantasy.  On the topic of fashion…check out Mistress Tia’s posting on Sissy Summer Fashions.

Something Special for the CD’s

My caller last night told me about a site that used to be online where CD’s would post pics of themselves in wedding attire.  Sadly, it was taken down a couple of years ago.  She had an essay on that site on CD shopping pointers.  I asked her to send it to me, which she did.  Her advice is excellent and I believe you will find it very helpful.  Look for the tab labelled “CD Shopping“.  Thank you Fran for this great advice!  I was perusing Mistress Meredith’s blog and saw a pic of her shoe collection.  You have to see this!

The Adventures of Baby G

One of my long time regular callers…we will call him baby g…has really become brave of late.  What used to be hot phone fantasies between him, me and Ms Olivia of diapering, feeding, and showing him off to our pretty girlfriends has taken big steps into real life.  First he started dating a former men’s magazine cover girl.  Go baby g!  She inspired him to take things further.

The Saga Continues

Baby g has been getting diapered in RL by this sexy new girlfriend.  He was all set to suck a real cock, but the fates were against him…twice.  He perseveres and I know he will accomplish his goal.  In the meantime, he and I and another young beauty will be meeting this week to diaper baby g and baby him into sensuous oblivion.  He and the other girl in person…me on the phone.  I will tell you all about it afterward.  Count on it!

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Sizzing in Arizona

Let the Games Begin!

The big move is done.  I am now happily ensconced in the Valley of the Sun…Phoenix, Arizona!  Famous for blue skies, palm trees, cacti, and Empress Violet!  Now when you call me, I am answering from a cozy little office in my boudoir.  My feather top 4-poster bed is right behind me.  And there is a big bag of Fem Domme toys at hand.  Prepare for a whole new level of intensity in our sessions.

Sexy Visitor

The girl-on-girl loving Ms Olivia is visiting right now.  We had a fabulous Italian dinner at a Scottsdale restaurant two nights ago.  Tonight, she is coming to my new house for an Indonesian feast cooked by one of my houseslaves.  Then Ms Olivia and I will be stripping down and sinking into my spa.  Some wine, starlight, beautiful views…let your imaginations go wild here.  I know mine is!  Can you say “Mutual Body Worship?”

A Red Hot Story

Last week I gave one of my regular callers a major challenge.  Not only did he accept with glee…he took things up a notch and THEN had things bumped up several more notches for him!!  Read it in his own words right here:

“I stopped at the gas station/convience store and walked to the area where they sell  donuts and cake.  Right on the top shelf were the apple turnovers.  I started to get  excited already.  I grabbed it and went to the counter.  I paid the salesgirl and  asked her where the men’s room was.  As I walked to the back, a maintenance man told me that he was fixing a toilet and that I should use the ladies room.  Of course I questioned this.  He said “Don’t worry.  It’s late.  Not many women come by this late.”  I went in and entered a stall.

Once inside, I stripped naked, hung my clothes on the hook inside the door and unwrapped the turnover.  I couldn’t wait to slide my sissy dick in it.  As I was fucking the turnover, I heard someone enter the stall next to me.  Bending over, I saw women’s shoes.  I froze.  Next thing…I heard her peeing.    I was in shock, scared stiff.  If she only knew I was next to her with my dick in a turnover.  As soon as she left, I wasted no time in adding my “filling” to the turnover.  I peeked out of the stall.  The coast was clear, so I ran out, put what was left of the turnover on the sink, grabbed some wet paper towels and got back into the stall to clean myself up.  As I walked out of the ladies room, another woman was walking in. She asked me why I was in there.  I told her that the men’s room  was broken.  Then I got my ass out of there and back to my car.  Wow!”

Of course my caller warned me that I was going to laugh.  But by the time I finished reading the account of his adventure, I had tears running down my face just envisioning his escapade.

Coming Up Next

The Adventures of Baby G.  I have this wonderful regular caller who is a great guy.  He just happens to enjoy wearing diapers and wetting them.  But he has gone far beyond this one little fetish.  Just wait until you hear what he has done lately!

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