I mean “flowering”, not showering.  You see, with the addition of the exotic Ms Iris to the LDW Mistresses, there are now two beautiful wildflowers in the LDW garden.  We have done some fabulous 2 Mistress calls together and discovered that we mesh like . . . → Read More: Flowering You With Kink]]>

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Not a Typo

I mean “flowering”, not showering.  You see, with the addition of the exotic Ms Iris to the LDW Mistresses, there are now two beautiful wildflowers in the LDW garden.  We have done some fabulous 2 Mistress calls together and discovered that we mesh like gardening and water.   We also enjoy a lot of the same kinks!

Bright Sunshine

Flowers love the sun and so do we!  Ms Iris and I like to have a really good time.  When we get kinky with you, we tease, laugh, share, plot…all in the quest of insuring your session with us is ultra HOT!   You know how sexy it is to have one beautiful Mistress in session with you.  Now imagine the two of us having our wicked way with you.  And with each other!  *wink*  We have a GREAT time double-teaming you.

 Variety is the Spice

There is little we won’t do to satisfy your erotic desires.  If you crave guided masturbation and edging, we will drive you dangerously close to the edge and pull you back, over and over and over, until you beg us for sweet release.  Oh…you like role plays?  So do we.  *grin*  Imagine the two of us undressing for your pleasure; touching you, touching each other;  the three of us on one big, comfy bed…doing things you have been fantasizing about for years!

Dreaming of entering the taboo world of cum eating?  We will take turns feeding it to you…off various, sexy parts of our bodies.  We can coach you through the preliminaries of precum eating, work you into a major frenzy that makes it oh-so-easy to finally eat a load of your own cum!

Maybe you are into denial or chastity.  That is something Ms Iris and I adore!  We can lock you up, challenge you, tease you incredibly, keep you busy with assignments, or simply help each other out by keeping our denial/chastity submissives busy while their Mistress is unavailable.  We would be very happy to ensure you stay chaste.  Not a problem!

Mild to moderate CBT or other pain play?  Let’s do it.  We have a special list of implements we will instruct you to have on hand for the  session.  No actual sex toys?  No problem…we are highly inventive and can make use of seemingly innocuous items around your home.

Nature’s Bounty

I am sure you will agree that Mother Nature smiled upon us, the wildflowers of LDW.  We have the faces, bodies, hair, voices, sensuality, intellect, and creativity you thought only happened in dreams.  This is real.  No, Ms Iris and I are not exactly alike in every way; but experienced together we are more than twice as fun.  One might say a 2 Mistress session with the wildflowers of LDW is the garden of paradise!

Email either of us to arrange a 2 Mistress call.  Since both of us are in high demand, that truly is the best way to ensure we are both available to play with you.

Have you already had the pleasure of a 2 Mistress calls with us?  I would love to read your comments on that experience.  Have you been fantasizing about having both of us all to yourself for a while?  Tell me what you are imagining.  You know what a curious mind I have.  *smile*

Today is Easter, and here in Phoenix, spring has sprung!  My mind turns to fun with eggs.  Not the kind birds lay.  These eggs are dangling between your legs.  And they are fair game for a whole lot of fun games!  Let’s celebrate by playing one of them . . . → Read More: Playing With Your Eggs]]>

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Let’s Celebrate

Today is Easter, and here in Phoenix, spring has sprung!  My mind turns to fun with eggs.  Not the kind birds lay.  These eggs are dangling between your legs.  And they are fair game for a whole lot of fun games!  Let’s celebrate by playing one of them together!

Look Down

Your testicles are about the size of large eggs.  In the case of some of you, they are more like peaches.  You know who you are.  *wink*  Those “eggs” of yours are so eager for attention, and yet intensely sensitive.  Which makes them especially fun to play with.  What kind of games do I have in mind?

Let the Games Begin

For you wee willy winky guys, it might be a “Find the Eggs” game.  Because they are so small, it is difficult to actually spot them.  *laugh*  But the rest of you are likely going to enjoy something a little more involved.  Consider a guided masturbation game where you edge by rubbing ice over your “eggs”.  Or dipping your “eggs” into icy water to calm your cock down.  Good, clean fun!

Batter Up!

Perhaps you would enjoy something more…vigorous.  For you, I propose a game of Egg Ping Pong.  Using a paddle, a brush, a spatula, or other item of this type, you swat your “eggs” back and forth, to and fro.  Increasing the force, and the number of swats at my command.  That game is SO FUN in a CFNM (Clothes Female, Naked Male fantasies) scenario.

The Crowd Goes Wild!

Want to vibrate with nerves and excitement?  I know just the game for you.  It’s called Decorate the Eggs.  A seasonal game I like to play with you and about 7 of my young, pretty girlfriends.  We start with a pile of strips of satin ribbon in sweet pastel colors.  And bells!  One by one, we tie a pretty bow around one of your “eggs”, adding a bell here and there.  Till you are ting-a-linging around the room for our laughing enjoyment!

Pick Your Poison

The precise game is up to you.  And let’s not get caught up in semantics.  You might be thinking “Hey!  That last game sounds like humiliation to me!”  You say potato, I say po-tah-to.  *laughing*  All that matters is that we have a fabulous time.  So give me a call and let’s use your “eggs” for the purpose they were intended.  My enjoyment!

Have you played an “eggs” game before?  Tell Miss Violet all about it.

Recently it occurred to me that being an LDW Mistress provided me with the perfect method to become a professional voyeur.  I have been one in my personal life for a long, LONG time.  But I never thought about using that naughty aspect of my personality in a . . . → Read More: Being a Professional Voyeur]]>

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A Revelation

Recently it occurred to me that being an LDW Mistress provided me with the perfect method to become a professional voyeur.  I have been one in my personal life for a long, LONG time.  But I never thought about using that naughty aspect of my personality in a profession.  But that is precisely what I am doing.  And I have to tell you that I am thrilled to realize it!

Very Lucky

Men have told me that I am incredibly lucky to get to do phone sex for a living.  I believe that is true.  Few women are motivated to call for phone sex, so unless a man wants to do gay phone sex, that line of work is completely out of the realm of possibility.

Anyone who does something they are truly passionate about for work is very lucky.  I know that.  Have always known that.  We spend a third of our lives at work.  I just happen to do mine in my sumptuous bedroom, listening to and watching men stroking cocks , riding strap-ons for me and doing all sorts of kinky sexual acts for my listening and viewing pleasure.  Voyeuristic, right?  *laugh*  It is, and I revel in that knowledge.

Never Ending Fun

Every day when I sign in for calls, I don’t know what will be presented to me, or who.  But I do know that it will be stimulating, sexy, sometimes funny, and never boring!  I get the privilege of talking to some of the greatest guys on the planet.  Getting to know them, being my creative self for them, laughing with them…sometimes AT them…and generally rolling around in the voyeurism that I adore.  Sometimes I can hardly believe this is real!

But it is.  Every bit as real as an in-person session.  Seeing men strip for me, stroke themselves to rigidity, eat their cum for me, moan…sigh…gasp for my eager ears.  I love every bit of it.  It makes sense that a natural born voyeur would be drawn to being a FemDom phone sex Mistress.  I am left wondering only one thing…why in the world I waited so long!

Don’t Be Shy

Perhaps you feel nervous about disrobing for me, or stroking on cam.  Maybe you have wanted to try it, but weren’t sure how I feel about seeing you.  Now you know.  I love it!  So I ask that you give a cam session a try if that sounds like fun to you.  We can do that via Yahoo Messenger, using either the Video Call feature, or webcam.  Or try Skype for a more real-time experience.  You will not be able to see me, but I will see every little move you make.  *grin*  Don’t deny me men.  I am SUCH a voyeur and a major cock tease!

Tell it Like it Is

Have you tried a webcam session?  What did you think about it?  Would you do it again?   What is keeping you from trying one?  You know I am endlessly curious about my readers.  Chime in with your comments!

We all have them.  Deep emotions for another person that bubble up inside.  Sometimes catching us unaware and surprising us with their intensity.  One of those emotions can be the realization that you love your Mistress.  If you are already involved in a primary relationship, that realization may bring . . . → Read More: Loving Your Mistress]]>

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Emotions

We all have them.  Deep emotions for another person that bubble up inside.  Sometimes catching us unaware and surprising us with their intensity.  One of those emotions can be the realization that you love your Mistress.  If you are already involved in a primary relationship, that realization may bring up all sorts of questions for you.  And even if you are single, you may not be sure of this feeling.

You went through the process of finding the perfect Mistress for you, and she is in your life.  Heady stuff!

Normalcy

The first doubt may be “Is it okay that I love you Mistress”?  My answer to that is “Yes”.  The bond between a Mistress and her submissive/slave is deep.  It sends roots into your mind, your psyche, and your heart.  When a submissive/slave really clicks with his Mistress, it is natural that the heart opens, allowing such deep feelings to stir.

I have had people ask me if I am okay with them loving me.  Absolutely!  I feel that it is more than normal to love your Mistress, but it is right.  Unless you are playing at being in a Mistress/s relationship, love is a part of the equation.

Guilt

The next question may be whether loving your Mistress is fair to your primary relationship?  I can understand how that doubt would prey on your honor, but this is a love that is not a threat to your romantic relationship.  I will be upfront with you in that I never want our relationship to have a negative impact on your marriage or other love relationship.  If anything, I wish to enhance that part of your life.

Sorting it Out

I am sure you understand that there are different types of love.  The love you have for your Mistress is not romantic.  Certainly you find her beautiful, and desirable.  But it is actually a blend of several factors that lead to these feelings of love.

The first factor is trust.  You have found someone you can tell your innermost fantasies, desires, and secret experiences to.  Someone who does not judge you, but accepts you as you are.  Your Mistress wants to guide you to being the best you can be in all facets of life.  So you also have a mentor and guide.  It feels good, and safe in a way you always dreamed of.

Lastly, you act out your innermost desires with your Mistress in conversation, role play, or fantasy.  She takes you by the hand, leads you into the depths of your mind, and brings you safely out the other side again.  Most people never find this in their life.  It brings up feelings of gratitude, and dependence.  This part of the equation can feel quite maternal in its love.

And you found someone who can, and does, control your cock.  Finally!

Acceptance

You and I can never meet in person.  I have no desire to interfere with your wife or girlfriend.  This relationship is strictly between you and I.  Know that I encourage you to love me as your Mistress.  I take that as the final piece falling into place between us.    And what I believe it is, is an extreme fondness.  So if you are feeling that for me, I accept your love with a whole heart.  Thank you for being a part of my life.  Know that you have a special place in my heart as well.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

P.S.  The LDW Oscar Awards are in full swing.  It’s time to vote for your favorite Mistress in multiple categories.  I am honored to have been nominated for quite a few awards.  So jump in and participate!  So easy…go to our social site, register (it’s free!), enter if you are already registered.  Go to Polls, and find Castaway’s polls on each voting category.  There are also categories for non-Mistress EE members.  I voted.  Have you?

I will be heading out of town.  Out of state actually.  Early in the morning…hot coffee and bagel in hand.  Driving through the chilly desert of Phoenix, headed out on a four day adventure.  That will give me a whole lot of time to . . . → Read More: Reflecting on the Season]]>

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On the First Day of Christmas

I will be heading out of town.  Out of state actually.  Early in the morning…hot coffee and bagel in hand.  Driving through the chilly desert of Phoenix, headed out on a four day adventure.  That will give me a whole lot of time to listen to the newest CD’s some of my wonderful callers have sent me.

Those of you who do not live in the wild West may not know that there are hours of driving time where one might receive no radio signals at all.  You read that right.  None.  I tend to spend that time singing some of my favorite songs, but eventually my vocal cords tire out and I flip on my CD player and groove to the tunes.  So thank you pet A and others who have so generously sent me fabulous music from my Wish List.

Back to the Point

Christmas means a whole lot more than presents to me.  Though presents can certainly meet a need, put a smile on someone’s face, and joy in the heart.  But the real meaning of the holiday season to me is to do good things for people.  Especially strangers and those who do not expect it.  It can be as simple as letting a man go ahead of me at the post office.  I always have a mountain of boxes and there will be a line of people behind me with one little box or a letter.  Or, holding the door for an elderly person.  Up to sending a whole bunch of gifts to a family I know who are struggling financially and have small children.  They will have no idea who that came from.  I am their secret Christmas elf.  *smile*

Now some of these things are tasks I do regularly, pretty much every day of my life.  But I put my kindness and loving hat on more firmly over the holidays.  People tend to get stressed and the best way to greet that is with a smile and a nice gesture.  I have been greeted with some of those myself of late.  From people I encounter in my personal life, and from the exceptional men and sissies who call me here at LDW.

Surprising Your Mistress

I know you appreciate me and the time we share together.  You tell me, you tell the world by rating our call (grin!), and a good number of you go a step further and show me.  The first amazing gesture that popped into my mind today is a very special gift from my tease toy.  He knows that I do energy healing for my family, friends, and others.  But I never had a massage table, which makes giving energy healing treatments much easier.  I had one on my Wish List for many months and he saw it and sent it to me.

When I found out, I had tears in my eyes.  I will be able to help so many more people now and that means so very much to me.  So thank you tease toy!  Another wonderful gesture was an airline gift certificate to visit my parents in Alabama.  That caller knew that I had not been to Alabama in a few years and was missing my parents so very much.  He just did that for me and I am still touched so deeply at his kindness.  The list could go on and on…that is how incredible my callers are.

Truly Caring

Again, though, it is more than gifts.  It is the true concern you wonderful callers show for me as a person.  You know that I return that in my concern for you and your life.  You cannot get to know a person so well via calls, emails, IMs, and text sessions, and not come to care about them.  For me that is impossible.

So I thank you…all of you…for being a part of my life.  Thank you for the friendship, devotion, generosity, and caring you send my way on a regular basis.  I notice it, I appreciate it, and my heart is so full with the love you give me.  I am looking forward to another year of incredible calls, laughter, kinkiness, and fun!

Going Both Ways

I appreciate the time we spend together.  Many of us have formed a real relationship and I cherish that.  So I enjoy doing special things for you!   When it is your birthday, I might send you a special photo birthday card of me, autographed…or sing happy birthday to you in my own style.

At Christmas, you just might find a little token of my esteem in your email.  You just never know!  But mostly I make sure that you know how much you mean to me.  That you are special to me, and that I think of you outside of our sessions.   I like you to know that, and to understand that each one of you has a special relationship with me.  And each relationship is different.   To me…you are as individual as a snowflake…and every bit as beautiful.

Thank you for being a part of my life!

Missing Me

As I mentioned earlier in this posting, I will be gone Christmas Day and for the 3 days after that.  I will be back on Thursday, December 29th.  This will be an actual vacation.  Can you believe it?  *laugh*  That means I will not have my laptop with me.  So…while I am gone, remember that you can:

• See me at Cock Control
• Read about me on my blogs:  www.YourKinkAdvisor.com; www.ilovepantyboys.com; www.VanillaTease.com; www.CoachedToEatCum.com; www.TheVoyeurWindow.com; www.PhoneSexForCouples.com
• Hear me at our free audio sites:  www.TeaseMania.com;  www.GetGirlie.com; and here on this blog
• Learn about me by perusing my Wish List

Here for calls every day through the 24th!

It is always interesting to hear a man tell me about his fetish and then find out that he is keeping it secret from his significant other.  I am so used to discussing my sexual preferences with boyfriends, and hearing about theirs.  But I know there can . . . → Read More: Keeping Your Fetish Secret]]>

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Shedding Some Light

It is always interesting to hear a man tell me about his fetish and then find out that he is keeping it secret from his significant other.  I am so used to discussing my sexual preferences with boyfriends, and hearing about theirs.  But I know there can be many reasons why a man decides to keep it separate from his primary relationship.

One caller told me, “I mentioned my fascination with wearing panties when we were dating.  She did not seem thrilled, so I never brought it up again.  I continue to wear panties but live with a fear of being caught cross dressing.”  Hmmmm…this kind of situation gets my wheels turning.  Maybe we some time to think about it, and read up on panty boys, this woman would have been more open to the fetish.  When a person is surprised by a fetish they are unfamiliar with, it can be difficult for them to give much of a response at all.  I advised him to bring it up again, but in a playful, lighthearted way.

Oil and Water

You know that oil and water do not mix.  And that seems to be a big reason why a lot of guys decide to keep their fetish quiet.  One quiet spoken, intelligent man told me, “I have always been a sexual explorer.  My wife is very conservative.  I cannot even imagine her being a cuckold wife.”  He may be right about that.  Some fetishes are too far of a stretch for some personalities.  That is a fact.

In a case like that, it makes sense to me to either keep your secret as a secret, or approach it very cautiously.   Once you reveal your need for a specific fetish, you can’t take it back.  Right?  Until you do decide to share your fetish with your significant other, you can have a Mistress to explore it with.  Because a fetish never goes away.  It needs to be taken out and exercised regularly to avoid blowing up into a GIGANTIC fetish monster that pushes you to do something that upsets your life in a negative manner.

Naughty Nature

Some of you simply enjoy being clandestine in your search for fulfillment.  In short, being naughty.  Ah, I know you when I meet you.  *smile*  One such caller told me, “I could bring up my cum eating fetish with my wife, and she would likely be fine with it.  But it wouldn’t be as much fun as waiting until I have privacy, and calling you!”

Well…that is very flattering, of course.  And it makes me laugh, which I always appreciate.  Because I know that some things are just more enticing when they are done in secret.  It’s true, and you know it!  I get it and am delighted to be your naughty little secret.

Let’s Hear It

So tell me…why do you keep your fetish from your lady?   You know that I am intrigued with the workings of the mind.  I really do want to know!  You can leave a comment here telling me your reason and whether you expect to ever tell your lady about your currently secret desires.

Temporary Schedule

If you have not looked at my Schedule & Sessions page lately, I have updated it to reflect temporary daytime/evening hours.  From now through December 5th I am working between noon and 10 pm ET.  This is a great time to call me from work, or catch me from your car before you head home.

On December 6th, I will be back to my usual hours!

Find my newest sizzling erotic audios in the Enchantrix Empire Audio Store.   “Becoming My Slave” and “Your Body Gets Clamped”

I am headed to Vegas tomorrow morning and will be there for 8 fun-filled days and nights.  It is that time again…the LDW Mistress Gathering.  When as many of we lovely ladies as possible gather at one fabulous Vegas hotel/casino for some face to face time.  Can . . . → Read More: Gathering in Las Vegas]]>

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Viva Las Vegas

I am headed to Vegas tomorrow morning and will be there for 8 fun-filled days and nights.  It is that time again…the LDW Mistress Gathering.  When as many of we lovely ladies as possible gather at one fabulous Vegas hotel/casino for some face to face time.  Can you imagine 40, or more, of us all in one room?  At the same time!

After the first 3 days, the Mistress Gathering will be over and I will be staying for 5 days working vacation.  Some of you have been new to that concept.  It means I will be signing in for calls when I am not out having Vegas fun!  So look for me online during the day, evening, or night!  Take a look at the Schedule & Sessions page of this blog for details.

While You Are Waiting

There are all sorts of things you can do to feel close to me when you are are missing me.  Of course you can look for up online and call!  *smile*  But I also have lots of sexy, interesting blogs for you to read.  You will find sexy photos, interesting postings, fun ideas, and provoking thoughts!

~  This one.  You are already here!  I have about 2 1/2 years worth of posts to read, audios, and all sorts of specialty pages too!

~  www.YourKinkAdvisor.com     An advice column blog

~  www.ILovePantyBoys.com     I really do!

~  www.PhoneSexForCouples.com    Something to consider  *wink*

Hear Me

I used to host a weekly talk show on Talkshoe.  It was called The Voyeur Window.  An exploration of a different fascinating fetish every episode!  You can still listen to the shows at Talkshoe.  The last episodes aired on BBS Radio , but it requires a minimal membership fee to hear those archived episodes.  Along with the show,  I have a blog.  It is www.TheVoyeurWindow.com    Check it out to read about sexy topics, see more erotic pics, and have naughty fun!

Teasing Your Ears

This may be news to you:  I have HUNDREDS of audios posted on our free audio sites?  It’s true!  You can listen for free at TeaseMania and at GetGirlie.  They are on topics from body worship, to humiliation, and from cuckolding, to coerced cock sucking.  Something for every kinkster!  This alone could keep you busy until I get back home!

Find Out More About Me

On this blog I have an “About Me” page.  You will literally learn a LOT about me just by reading that.  Now, some of what you read may raise some questions for you…but we can talk about those when we get together next.   Here is something else to comtemplate:  You can tell a lot about a Mistress just by looking at her Wish List.  So I invite you to take a tour through my Wish List.  See what I am into.  Get a read on my tastes and interests.

Out of State, NOT Out of Touch

Though I will be in Nevada for the next 8 days, I will still be in touch with you all.  Able to check my IM’s and emails and respond to you; especially after the first 3 days are over.  During that time, we Mistresses tend to party so hard we have little time for sleep!  But after that…you will DEFINITELY get a response from me; and I will be taking calls again!

So think of me lots…keep yourself busy…and call me when you see me signed in!  I will be SO ready for naughty fun with you boys and sissies!

Hugs & kisses…

You are probably wondering why I have a pic of my good friend Ms Olivia, here on my blog.  It is because the two of us have partnered on a new blog.  A blog on the joys of cum eating.  There . . . → Read More: Entering the World of Cum Eating]]>

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To Eat or Not to Eat

You are probably wondering why I have a pic of my good friend Ms Olivia, here on my blog.  It is because the two of us have partnered on a new blog.  A blog on the joys of cum eating.  There is more to this blog than you might believe.  It is www.CoachedToEatCum.com.

On the surface, cum eating seems like a simple activity.  But, in reality, there are many aspects involved.  A lot of men have given thought to trying it, some have desperately wanted to and just could not do it on their own, some of you are ready to give it a try, and the rest of you are old hats at cum eating!   Or…you have no interest in this at all.  If that is the case, just enjoy the lovely pics to your left and then read back over previous sexy entries you ARE into.  *laugh*

The Reasons Vary

With my love of psychology, I am always curious about why a man wants to eat cum.  The reasons are incredibly varied.  After making eight sexy free cum eating audios, and posting them on the new blog…today a caller made me aware of a ninth reason.  Let me share all of those with you now:

• You already know that you love/crave eating cum.  Whether it is the taste, the texture, the taboo aspect, or the act of submission.
• It is your first time eating cum and you need to be guided through.
• You are a cock sucker and need to suck cum off your fingers or a dildo to calm your craving.
• You enjoy being humiliated; laughed at for being a total cum dump.
• You are a sissy or CD who enjoys the feminine feeling you get when you eat cum.
• You are bi, or bi-curious and need me to coerce you into eating cum.
• You are an advanced cum eater who is ready to learn some cum recipes, or want to learn how to make your cum sweeter.
• You want to be educated about cum eating and convinced that it is good to eat your own cum.
• You would never eat cum on your own, but doing it for a Mistress who enjoys it, is an act of devotion to her.

Give it Some Thought

Perhaps one of the reasons I listed above will peak your interest and you will find yourself thinking about possibly eating your cum.  My advice is that instead of letting that curiosity roll around in your head too long, you visit our new blog, read the postings, listen to the free cum eating audios, read the pages about both of us.  Call one of us and talk it through.  You know the saying, “No harm, no foul.”  That is quite true here.  Should you decide to try cum eating and you do not enjoy it, just do not do it again.

But should you eat your cum and find that it excites you, you have opened up an entirely new avenue of fetish exploration.  That can lead to a whole world of excitement for you; or a new element to add to your existing fetish.  Why not, I ask?

Your Reason Why

Why do you eat your cum?  Why do you want to?  Why have you never tried it?  I really am interested in your stories.  Feel free to leave them here in comments.  That is where the real action is, so be sure to read the comments anyway!

Happy Cum Eating!