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The Spiritual Side of BDSM

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My Natural Instinct

The first time I dominated a male, I was such a novice and rather nervous.  All of my attention was focused on covering that up, and on what I was doing with him.  But after that, I noticed that BDSM had a very spiritual feel to it.  My . . . → Read More: The Spiritual Side of BDSM

The Effects of Spanking

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Mid Spanking Moment

I love spanking.  The effects of spanking have been reassuringly predictable over the years.  Usually when I have someone over my lap, pants pulled down to their ankles, and tush on display, their penis gets incredibly hard.  I know this because it is poking down between my . . . → Read More: The Effects of Spanking

Masturbating More

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You Want to be a Better Masturbator

We have a new website called  If you are new to affirmations, they are statements that you want to be true, but are not yet true for you.  Generally these affirmations are said to achieve a personal goal.

Knowing how much you . . . → Read More: Masturbating More

Mistress Gratitude

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You Are a Gift to Me

This is more than simply a way to make money.  And you are more than just a client.  You really are a gift to me.

You light up my life, you show me true submission and devotion, you add laughter to my days and . . . → Read More: Mistress Gratitude

Distance Chastity

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Distance Chastity

No one to lock you up? That is where I come in.  Chastity is one of my very favorite fetishes.  I have learned some techniques and implements to make distance chastity as “real” as you want it to be.

Being locked in chastity for your . . . → Read More: Distance Chastity

Spanking Humiliation

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The Epitome of Humiliation

Just when I think that Over the Knee Spanky Boi has reached the epitome of humiliation with his spankings, he tells me about his most recent experience and I realize that he can take the spanking humiliation further!

He has a huge spanking fetish and goes . . . → Read More: Spanking Humiliation

Mistress Attitude

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It’s Not a New Attitude

This is the same attitude I developed years ago when I discovered BDSM.  It is an attitude that I know you would recognize.  The Mistress Attitude.  It can be so subtle that people outside of the scene would not recognize it for what it is.  . . . → Read More: Mistress Attitude

This Cock is Just Right

The Real Story

You have read the story of Goldilocks.  What you did not know is that the real story revolves around a very adult topic.  It is about finding the right cock.  For who?  Why, for you, of course!  Because anal play is fabulous and not just a fairytale.

You see, Goldilocks . . . → Read More: This Cock is Just Right

A Cocktease Knows You’ll Beg

Welcome my good friend, Ms Christine.  She is guest writing today! You Want To Be Teased By Your Cocktease

You’ll soon be ready to beg!

And as your Cocktease, I know exactly what you need, my pet.  The more I tell you to stroke, the harder your cock gets, the more . . . → Read More: A Cocktease Knows You’ll Beg

Double Celebration for Mistress

Officially a Dinosaur

As of today, I am officially a dinosaur here at LDW.  Today is my 7 year anniversary.  Woohoo!  That is a long time to be a phone Mistress.  Seven years ago today, I signed in for the first time and took my first call.  It was a roller-coaster of a . . . → Read More: Double Celebration for Mistress