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Reflecting on the Season

Empress Violet — Mon, 19 Dec 2011 20:55:11 +0000

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On the First Day of Christmas

I will be heading out of town. Out of state actually. Early in the morning…hot coffee and bagel in hand. Driving through the chilly desert of Phoenix, headed out on a four day adventure. That will give me a whole lot of time to listen to the newest CD’s some of my wonderful callers have sent me.

Those of you who do not live in the wild West may not know that there are hours of driving time where one might receive no radio signals at all. You read that right. None. I tend to spend that time singing some of my favorite songs, but eventually my vocal cords tire out and I flip on my CD player and groove to the tunes. So thank you pet A and others who have so generously sent me fabulous music from my Wish List.

Back to the Point

Christmas means a whole lot more than presents to me. Though presents can certainly meet a need, put a smile on someone’s face, and joy in the heart. But the real meaning of the holiday season to me is to do good things for people. Especially strangers and those who do not expect it. It can be as simple as letting a man go ahead of me at the post office. I always have a mountain of boxes and there will be a line of people behind me with one little box or a letter. Or, holding the door for an elderly person. Up to sending a whole bunch of gifts to a family I know who are struggling financially and have small children. They will have no idea who that came from. I am their secret Christmas elf. *smile*

Now some of these things are tasks I do regularly, pretty much every day of my life. But I put my kindness and loving hat on more firmly over the holidays. People tend to get stressed and the best way to greet that is with a smile and a nice gesture. I have been greeted with some of those myself of late. From people I encounter in my personal life, and from the exceptional men and sissies who call me here at LDW.

Surprising Your Mistress

I know you appreciate me and the time we share together. You tell me, you tell the world by rating our call (grin!), and a good number of you go a step further and show me. The first amazing gesture that popped into my mind today is a very special gift from my tease toy. He knows that I do energy healing for my family, friends, and others. But I never had a massage table, which makes giving energy healing treatments much easier. I had one on my Wish List for many months and he saw it and sent it to me.

When I found out, I had tears in my eyes. I will be able to help so many more people now and that means so very much to me. So thank you tease toy! Another wonderful gesture was an airline gift certificate to visit my parents in Alabama. That caller knew that I had not been to Alabama in a few years and was missing my parents so very much. He just did that for me and I am still touched so deeply at his kindness. The list could go on and on…that is how incredible my callers are.

Truly Caring

Again, though, it is more than gifts. It is the true concern you wonderful callers show for me as a person. You know that I return that in my concern for you and your life. You cannot get to know a person so well via calls, emails, IMs, and text sessions, and not come to care about them. For me that is impossible.

So I thank you…all of you…for being a part of my life. Thank you for the friendship, devotion, generosity, and caring you send my way on a regular basis. I notice it, I appreciate it, and my heart is so full with the love you give me. I am looking forward to another year of incredible calls, laughter, kinkiness, and fun!

Going Both Ways

I appreciate the time we spend together. Many of us have formed a real relationship and I cherish that. So I enjoy doing special things for you! When it is your birthday, I might send you a special photo birthday card of me, autographed…or sing happy birthday to you in my own style.

At Christmas, you just might find a little token of my esteem in your email. You just never know! But mostly I make sure that you know how much you mean to me. That you are special to me, and that I think of you outside of our sessions. I like you to know that, and to understand that each one of you has a special relationship with me. And each relationship is different. To me…you are as individual as a snowflake…and every bit as beautiful.

Thank you for being a part of my life!

Missing Me

As I mentioned earlier in this posting, I will be gone Christmas Day and for the 3 days after that. I will be back on Thursday, December 29th. This will be an actual vacation. Can you believe it? *laugh* That means I will not have my laptop with me. So…while I am gone, remember that you can:

See me at Cock Control
Read about me on my blogs: www.YourKinkAdvisor.com; www.ilovepantyboys.com; www.VanillaTease.com; www.CoachedToEatCum.com; www.TheVoyeurWindow.com; www.PhoneSexForCouples.com
Hear me at our free audio sites: www.TeaseMania.com; www.GetGirlie.com; and here on this blog
Learn about me by perusing my Wish List

Here for calls every day through the 24th!

Entering the World of Cum Eating

Empress Violet — Tue, 25 Oct 2011 07:44:00 +0000

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To Eat or Not to Eat

You are probably wondering why I have a pic of my good friend Ms Olivia, here on my blog. It is because the two of us have partnered on a new blog. A blog on the joys of cum eating. There is more to this blog than you might believe. It is www.CoachedToEatCum.com.

On the surface, cum eating seems like a simple activity. But, in reality, there are many aspects involved. A lot of men have given thought to trying it, some have desperately wanted to and just could not do it on their own, some of you are ready to give it a try, and the rest of you are old hats at cum eating! Or…you have no interest in this at all. If that is the case, just enjoy the lovely pics to your left and then read back over previous sexy entries you ARE into. *laugh*

The Reasons Vary

With my love of psychology, I am always curious about why a man wants to eat cum. The reasons are incredibly varied. After making eight sexy free cum eating audios, and posting them on the new blog…today a caller made me aware of a ninth reason. Let me share all of those with you now:

You already know that you love/crave eating cum. Whether it is the taste, the texture, the taboo aspect, or the act of submission.
It is your first time eating cum and you need to be guided through.
You are a cock sucker and need to suck cum off your fingers or a dildo to calm your craving.
You enjoy being humiliated; laughed at for being a total cum dump.
You are a sissy or CD who enjoys the feminine feeling you get when you eat cum.
You are bi, or bi-curious and need me to coerce you into eating cum.
You are an advanced cum eater who is ready to learn some cum recipes, or want to learn how to make your cum sweeter.
You want to be educated about cum eating and convinced that it is good to eat your own cum.
You would never eat cum on your own, but doing it for a Mistress who enjoys it, is an act of devotion to her.

Give it Some Thought

Perhaps one of the reasons I listed above will peak your interest and you will find yourself thinking about possibly eating your cum. My advice is that instead of letting that curiosity roll around in your head too long, you visit our new blog, read the postings, listen to the free cum eating audios, read the pages about both of us. Call one of us and talk it through. You know the saying, “No harm, no foul.” That is quite true here. Should you decide to try cum eating and you do not enjoy it, just do not do it again.

But should you eat your cum and find that it excites you, you have opened up an entirely new avenue of fetish exploration. That can lead to a whole world of excitement for you; or a new element to add to your existing fetish. Why not, I ask?

Your Reason Why

Why do you eat your cum? Why do you want to? Why have you never tried it? I really am interested in your stories. Feel free to leave them here in comments. That is where the real action is, so be sure to read the comments anyway!

Happy Cum Eating!

Humiliation From A to Z

Empress Violet — Tue, 04 Oct 2011 07:32:25 +0000

Entertain Us

It will not be a surprise to you to find out that I have some very naughty girlfriends. Ladies who are involved in the fetish lifestyle in a variety of manners. Owning slaves & submissives, swingers, CFNM couples, play parties. These ladies look to me to provide some unique entertainment for them. And this month…tag…you’re it! *grin*

I told the ladies that you will be coming over for a special party. What you do not realize is that you are the entertainment! Stripped naked, except for a stylish collar with D-ring; I pose you strategically on a low platform in the entryway of my home. In a position that is ridiculous and difficult to maintain. And yet, maintain you shall. Or else! What do I mean by that? Read on!

Make Us Laugh

When I give you an order and you do not follow it, that means you are asking for the fun to be bumped up! I may have you stand in the center of the table as a centerpiece for my girlfriends and I to enjoy through our meal. You standing there, rigid, with orders to remain rigid without touching yourself until dinner is over. Or perhaps we have you hold your pose while we hurl small penis humiliation your way for an hour or so.

And then I may have you crawl behind me into the living room, hop up onto a large leather ottoman for the real entertainment. I hand each lady a pretty satin ribbon in a pastel color and instruct them to tie a dainty bow around your girly giggle stick. You end up looking like an Easter basket. *laughing*

Then we have you pose for us in all sorts of embarrassing poses. Hold completely still while you are touched randomly by our perfectly pedicured feet. Imagine the feel of our soft, beautiful feet moving over your flesh. I can almost feel you shiver. If you move, you get spanked. Over my knee, bare assed, while each lady has her turn paddling your naked hiney. With we ladies laughing hysterically all the while!

Humiliation for Free

Starting on October 6th and continuing through October 31st, each day we will post a “Letter of the Day” on www.thedailycock.com. If your last name starts with that letter, you get a free 10 minute phone sex call with the Mistress of your choice! You must be a previous caller of the service as of Midnight Eastern Time on October 5th in order to take advantage of this promotion.

Now here’s the trick – you’ll have to visit www.thedailycock.com to find out the letter of the day. Our lovely dispatchers will not be able to tell you, so you can’t call in and ask if it’s your day. You’ll need to tell the dispatcher that you’re calling in for the Letter of the Day promo in order to get your call.

The Letter of the Day will be posted right after Midnight Eastern Time each day, and you can call to claim your call anytime that day.

A Red Face Awaits

It has never been easier to get humiliated by a beautiful Mistress and her kinky girlfriends! So what are you waiting for? In 10 minutes I can make the blood rush to your face, your cock stand at attention, your head spin, and have you gasping. Do not miss your day to get a free 10 minute call with me, or your favorite Mistress.

Need some ideas for a humiliation call, check out the essays in our Phone Sex Library!

The Perfect Feet of Ms Violet

Giving You Phone Fun With a Twist

Empress Violet — Fri, 30 Sep 2011 08:55:05 +0000

Breaking the Mold

Some of you are really stuck in a rut. Guided masturbation is fun. Edging is fabulous. But there are so many exciting fetishes out there to explore. And trying them does not have to mean jumping in the lake and hoping you can swim. No! You can just stick in a toe. Test the fetish water. See if you like it.

I want to explore a couple options with you now. First…do me a favor and relax. Try your best not to judge, or discuss anything just because it is new for you. Because I need you to have an open mind when you read past this point right here.

Trying Chastity

One of my very favorite fetishes is chastity. Before you run screaming from my blog, remember you are keeping an open mind for me. *smile* While it is true that I have personal house slave in open ended chastity, and that I have had a few phone slaves who opted for that, there are many other options before that one.

When you call me for your first chastity assignment, I will ask you what the longest period of time you have ever gone without a release is. Most of my chastity callers answer to that was something like, “One day.” After I stop laughing at your stroke-a-holic tendencies, I will kindly suggest that you consider doing one full day of chastity for me. Just 24 hours.

Can You Do It?

Most guys think about it and realize how reasonable that request is. I will not tell you it will be easy. Odds are that you will have a crazy serious need to stroke. But if you are determined to make it through and please me, you will do it. Depending on your current stroking habits, I may allow you to stroke but not edge, or edge a few times, or no touching at all. That part is quite individual.

When you report to me that you made it through, I will congratulate you. We will talk about how you fared. You will feel quite proud of yourself. Then I will pounce upon that moment to challenge you to 2 or 3 days of chastity. It is so interesting how things twist and soon your desire to stay chaste to please me becomes more of a driving force than your desire for release.

Male chastity phone sex can be as intense as being a chastity slave in person! Something to think about

Present Bottom

When was the last time you had a real spanking? Perhaps when you were a little boy, or sissy, and got in trouble at home. Your mother put you over her knee and spanked you till you cried. Now think about this grown up version. I tell you that you have been a very naughty man. You must be punished! I pull down your pants, pull you over my knee, hold your down with my soft hand, and tell you precisely what I intend to do to you.

While my hand is running in circles around your cute little ass, I tell you that you must be disciplined. That I cannot have you sassing me. Flaunting the rules in my face. No respecting Mistress would allow such a thing. All the while knowing you are breathlessly anticipating the chastisement to come.

Feel the Burn

Finally my hand stopping rubbing, pulls back and lands with a satisfying “Smack!” on your right cheek. You gasp in astonishment at actually being spanked. How dare I? Why…you are a grown man! *laughing* Yes, you are. That is precisely what makes this so highly erotic. I begin to rhythmically land smacks on your cheeks, alternating sides. Hearing you try to stifle a moan, feeling your cock grow rigid with excitement between my thighs. I stop at times to run my hand lightly over your red, heated ass cheeks. Reminding you that I am doing this for your own good.

I am sure that you are seeing the possibilities in a scenario such as this. You may be wondering how you can be effectively spanked by phone. No worries. I have it down to an art. All you really need is your hand, but if you have a paddle of any type, it will make it much easier to administer the blows. Even common household items work well. Calling from a hotel? No problem…that is what remote controls are for. *wink* A spanking session can be as fun and teasing, or as serious and lengthy as you desire.

I Challenge You

Step outside your usual phone sex formula and dabble in a bit of chastity or spanking. Hopefully I do not completely blow your mind when I tell you that combining the two is unbelievably hot! Have you ever tried either of these fetish activities? I would really enjoy hearing about your experiences! And…every person who leaves a relevant comment for me about this blog posting will receive the full, UNCENSORED, version of the pic of me shown above. So be sure to use the email you want it sent to!

Finding My Dark Side

Empress Violet — Wed, 28 Sep 2011 09:57:01 +0000

A Surprise to You

Most of my callers want to talk with sensually sweet, caring Ms Violet. The firm, but sensual phone sex Fem Domme who holds their hand along the way; is there for them when they need to chat, or need encouragement. But there is a certain group of my callers who know an entirely different side of me. These men are into a whole different type of session.

Everything from serious humiliation, spanking, and bondage, to cock and ball torture, pressing & stomping, nipple torture, and other pain play. This Ms Violet is a whole different animal. It is not like I have a Dr. Jekyll/ Mr. Hyde personality split going on. It is just that I also enjoy these activities. When a caller says something like, “Mistress, I need pain. Please hurt me. Make me cry.” A little flip switches in my brain, I smile, and go right into mean Mistress mode.

Some Call it Hell

I believe this type of session fills a real need in my psyche to provide pain to a person who wants it and knows what it will do for them. Sure, it makes the pleasure more keen, but it also helps the submissive to release something within themselves that otherwise is bottled up, causing a pain of its own.

So while an outside spectator might view the scene of bondage and severe domination as some sort of captivity hell, I see it very differently. To me it is beautiful, poignant, and cathartic. A release of more then seminal fluid. I have had submissives burst into tears in the midst of a session and thank me over and over afterward for helping them to release pent up emotional pain. That pain could be the daily stress of being in charge, of controlling so many people and situations. It could even be something from childhood; or something you had no idea you were carrying around.

The Menu

I am proficient and talented in a variety of the darker erotic arts. Here is a list of some of my favorites:

~ Cock and ball torture

~ Pain Play: spanking, caning, flogging, slapping, riding crops

~ Nipple Torture

~ Bondage

~ Prostate Milking

~ Walking/Stomping

~ Chastity slaves & open ended Chastity

~ Crushing

~ Wax Play

~ Twisted Coerced Cock Sucking & Other Bi-Play

~ Sex Slave Fantasies & Roleplays

~ Serious Cuckolding

No Need to Fear

Those of you who enjoy calling me for my usual sensual self have nothing to fear. It is likely that you will never see this side of me. It is only those of you who seek the dark side…who request it…that shall experience this aspect of my erotic pleasures. Sometimes it is the dark play that provides the greatest release. If this is something you have fantasized about, let me know. Let’s talk about it and how play of this sort might best fill your needs. Both your physical AND emotional needs.

If you have had a session with me, or any of the LDW Mistresses, and you are willing to share your thoughts on it…please do so here by leaving a comment. I will be very curious to read what you have to say. You DO want to please your Mistress, don’t you?

Showing True Devotion

Empress Violet — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 07:38:17 +0000

Am I a lucky woman, or what??

Outstanding Examples

Every now and then one of my callers does something that is truly blog worthy. There were actually a few of those this week. I decided to start with a few who showed devotion above and beyond to their enchanting Mistress.

Thank you to all of you who sent me birthday greetings, called to say “Happy Birthday Mistress”, sang happy birthday to me, sent me gifts, and posted birthday salutations on the Enchanted Empire. You all added to the magic of my day and made it truly special. You really know how to put a smile on your Fem Domme‘s face and I thank you!!

Neither Rain, Nor Snow, Nor Hurricane

A good number of my callers had to batten down the hatches in preparation for Hurricane Irene. I thank you for letting me know that you were okay. Your Mistress was worried! Though the storm was not as severe as predicted…Yay for that!…weather is unpredictable by nature. I know a good deal of you were left with no power for days.

One of my storm hit fans, P.O.S., braved high winds, blowing debris, and general chaos to greet me as the clock struck midnight on my birthday. I was so touched and impressed with his dedication to me and the fervor with which he exhibits it. Just plain sweet!

Amazing Gifts

My little tease toy sent me a travel laptop so I can do calls and stay in touch even when I am out of town! I appreciate that so much. A few of you know that I have two other trips coming up in the next two months, so this gift was a timely little miracle.

There is a very special pet, Adam, who has been calling me since shortly after I started with LDW. He showers me with beautiful gifts throughout the year. For my birthday he really went all out and I am still receiving birthday gifts from him! Thank you so much pet! You know how to make me feel truly spoiled. And it is more than gifts. It is also your sweet emails, and messages on FB.

Glowing Praise

Then there is my good boy art. He has taken to writing glowing recommendations for me. “Rate My Call” every time. It is not just that he writes a recommendation. It is WHAT he writes. From reading what he has to say, you would think I am the ultimate phone sex Goddess. Those recommendations have been leaving me floating on air! Thank you art!

Just a Sample

There have been so many more examples. Poems, beautiful emails, sweet words on radio shows (Yes…I mean you Cindy!), other gifts, and just wonderful men and sissies who I feel so close with. Thank you ALL for being a part of my life and making this world brighter by being in it. *hugs*

Every one of you has shown true devotion. I want you to know that I am equally devoted to you!

Princess Violet

Celebrating With Your Mistress

Empress Violet — Fri, 19 Aug 2011 00:41:29 +0000

Celebrate With Me!

It’s Party Time

August is a special month for your enchanting Mistress. Coming up rapidly is my two year anniversary with LDW! On August 20th, it will be two full years since I signed in and took my very first erotic call. I remember that afternoon vividly. I was excited and curious as to what my first day of calls would bring.

Now it is two full years later and a good number of you who called me my first week, or month here…are still calling me. We have come to know each other well and formed a meaningful Mistress/s relationship. Just imagine what it will be like a year or two om now!

The Journey of Life

Every day I look forward to checking my email, and catching up with my friends on Enchantrix Empire. When 5 pm, Arizona time, rolls around and I sign in for calls…I am smiling and wondering who I will get to talk with this time. Happily reflecting on the joys of doing what I do now, instead of the myriad of careers I might have chosen.

Reason Two

August has always been a special month in my life. You see…my birthday is August 28th and I always celebrate that. But this year is a big one. Your phone sex Mistress will be turning 30! I intend to be the sexiest, kinkiest 30 year old in Arizona. *wink*

This year’s celebration includes a trip to Laughlin, Nevada for a concert, a comedy show, some boating, skidoo fun, and upscale dining. My best girl friend will be with me. She always adds to the fun with her giggles, flirting, and beauty. But that little trip is actually happening a few days AFTER my birthday.

About My Birthday

On my actual birthday, a Sunday this year, I will be here in Phoenix. Meeting with dear friends at an upscale eatery to celebrate my day of birth with French cuisine and a glass, or two, of bubbly. Then I will be off for the night as I have a second celebration planned at a private kinky gathering. You know I would not leave the kink out of my special day. *wink*

Quite a few of you have already asked me what I want for my birthday. That is easy! I have an Amazon Wish List set up. Everything on that list is something I chose, put on my list, and really do want. So you can peruse that list and know that if you choose to surprise me with anything from it, I will be delighted!

And please do not feel like you are required to give me anything. Just being you, and having you in my life adds sunshine to my world!

Let’s Start Now

Why wait? I say let’s start the celebration now! I will be here every night, except the 28th, through August. There will be a candle burning; probably a Himalayan salt lamp plugged in too! Lovely, romantic, mood lighting to start things off for some kinky phonesex, and if you sing happy birthday to me, you will put the biggest smile on my face!

Do you have something to celebrate this month? Share it with me here in Comments.

Missing Your Mistress

Empress Violet — Thu, 21 Jul 2011 06:39:00 +0000

Waving Goodbye

Not forever…just for 5 days. Your favorite sensual Mistress is headed to Chicago for a family visit. Though I will not be available for calls during this times, you can check the Schedule page of this blog for details on my availability.

What To Do

While I am gone, you can read all of my blogs. I have 4 of them! See the list below. You will find sexy photos, interesting postings, fun ideas, and provoking thoughts!

~ This one. You are already here! I have about 2 years worth of posts to read, audios, and all sorts of specialty pages too!

~ www.YourKinkAdvisor.com An advice column blog

~ www.ILovePantyBoys.com I really do!

~ www.PhoneSexForCouples.com Something to consider *wink*

There’s Also This

I used to host a weekly talk show on Talkshoe. It was called The Voyeur Window. You can still listen to the shows at Talkshoe and at BBS Radio.

Along with the show, I have a blog. It is www.TheVoyeurWindow.com Check it out to read about sexy topics, see more erotic pics, and have naughty fun!

Listen for Hours

Did you know that I have HUNDREDS of audios posted on our free audio sites? It’s true! You can listen for free at TeaseMania and at GetGirlie. This alone could keep you busy until I get back home!

Get to Know Me Better

My friend, Ms Harper, recently wrote in her blog about how you can tell a lot about a Mistress just by looking at her Wish List. She has a point. So I invite you to take a tour through my Wish List. See what I am into. Get a read on my tastes and interests. I enjoy doing this with the other Mistresses. *wink*

Coming Back

Never fear, I will be back! So think of me lots…keep yourself busy…and call me next week! I will be SO ready for naughty fun with you boys and sissies!

XOX

Inspiring My Submissives

Empress Violet — Sun, 10 Jul 2011 09:42:20 +0000

Hot Pics

That is the first, and most visible way I inspire. First, inspiring you to look for more pics of me. Then to read my blog and learn more about me. Later, possibly even prompting you to pick up the phone and give me a call. Since our Head Mistress, Ms Ally, added galleries of pics to our bio pages, you have been treated to a whole variety of glimpses of loveliness. What do they call that? Oh yes…eye candy.

Winning Pics

A whole lot of you won super sexy pics of me in May. That contest that allowed you to win too-hot-for-my-blog pics was a hit! I had over 130 entries. The winner was the infamous teasetoy, from our social site EnchantrixEmpire. He won an incredible 50…FIVE OH…HOT pics of me!!

How did teasetoy go so far above the rest of my entrants? He left 50 comments on my various blogs and postings. That means 50 separate blog postings! tease toy, I’m still amazed at your drive. And listen to this! He said he wants more!!

Blog Postings

It is clear that my blogs do stimulate! I get callers regularly who say that they were first intrigued with my blogs. That something I wrote really struck a chord in them. That always perks me up because it feels really good to hear that my writing is eliciting such emotional responses. Writing is supposed to move you!

As most of you know, I added a new blog back in March. It is an advice column blog called Your Kink Advisor. I am loving that blog as it allows me to reach into my therapist bag of tricks and answer some of your burning questions on all sorts of sexy topics. If you haven’t read it yet, check it out! And feel free to email me your own kinky question.

Toe Curling Audios

You can’t be a world class phone fantasy artist without a great voice. My years in radio, and as a professional singer make this aspect of my career a natural. My voice has been described as “sensuous”, “mellow”, “purring”, “melted caramel for the ears”, “authoritative with a tease”, and “sweet”. Whatever it strikes you as, one listen and you will be hooked.

Check out my hundreds of audios on our free sites where you will find feminization audios, and sexy audios. I also have more explicit audios for sale in the Enchantrix Empire Audio Store. If you still need more Ms Violet in your ears…I invite you to listen to the library of episodes of The Voyeur Window you can find at Talkshoe and BBS Radio. All sorts of fetish topics discussed by myself, my former co-host Ms Jane, and our fabulous call-in fans. Though the show is not currently on-air, you can listen to the previous episodes any time! Even download them!

Want More?

If all of that is not enough to arouse you to becoming mine…know this. As much as my sweet ones spoil me with gifts, tributes, cards, poems, glowing feedback…I enjoy spoiling them as well. Sending special birthday song audios, online cards, special pics, and more. Why? Because this is a relationship. Yes, I am the Mistress and I do like to have my way. But anything worth owning is worth cherishing. My slaves, submissives, and sissies are my most cherished possessions. I treat them as such.

Your Reason

Tell me what inspired you to email me the first time. Or to take that leap of faith and call me. I am truly curious.

Reasons For Using Phone Sex

Empress Violet — Sat, 28 May 2011 20:19:46 +0000

A Mistress...and so much more!

Why Men Call Phone Sex

I was thinking about all of the reasons that men have for calling the Mistresses here at LDW. They vary every bit as much as the men do. The stereotypical relationship of having a Mistress to control you, experiencing female domination is definitely one of the more popular ones. But I want to talk about some of the other reasons guys call.

My wonderful caller, Paul, and I were talking about this subject last week. He told me why he calls and I felt his reasons would strike a chord for other men. Rather than going on about it, I will let Paul tell you in his own words.

Discovering LDW

Just about a year ago, while in the middle of some really bad personal problems I made a big discovery. That was LDW and Vox Erotic. While looking at the pictures and reading the bios, one really stood out to me…that was Ms Violet. Then I sent the e-mail that would change my life.

You Can’t Rush a Relationship

Thru a dozen or so e-mails and IM’s, discussing all kinds of things from sex, kinks, music, to how I was doing in my own life, Ms Violet was there for everything I had to say. I remember our first call, just talking and really getting to know one another. The time went by so fast, and talking to her seemed like I was talking to an old friend. The connection and bond we had made in that short amount of time (a month I think) has become very important.

Building a Connection

The level of our connection has grown over the last year. I have told her things I do not think I could tell my closest friend. It’s not because it is a voice on the other end of the phone that I will never meet. It actually goes deeper than that, and something I have been missing in my personal physical relationships.

Unexpected Benefits

But there is so much more that I have gained from this relationship, because that’s what it is you know. Besides a sense of pride and self worth…I have gained a best friend, a confidant, and a lover…yes that’s right I said it. No matter what happens in my life from here on forward the bond Ms Violet and I share will always be there and continue to grow, and is not something I would ever want to give up.

Thank you Ms Violet

Written by

Paul G. (EmpressViolets_LordVader)

Breaking the Mold

Ms Ally was the visionary who created LDW and the EnchantrixEmpire. It was her idea of what a phone sex company could be that got us here, and will continue to improve year by year. She ensures that the LDW Mistresses are far beyond the average phone sex worker. And that means the experience you, as the caller, receive is far beyond what you may have experienced elsewhere.

When the Mistresses…the women themselves…are more highly educated, more sophisticated, creative, fully experienced in life…you cannot help but get more out of your relationship with your Mistress. As many of you are aware, my former profession was as a behavioral health professional. Here at LDW I find myself wearing many different hats and loving it. Mistress, friend, lover, confidant, confessional, sister, mother, advisor, a listening ear, a spiritual influence, and sometimes simply a shoulder to cry on.

Satisfying My Curiosity

So tell me. What is your reason for calling me, or sexy texting with me? I would love to hear what brought you to LDW, why you chose me as your Mistress, and what it is you have gotten out of our relationship. You can leave a comment here, or email me with a more extended reply that you will allow me to post on my blog.