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Being a Phone Mistress

Being a phone mistress with Miss Violet 800-601-6975

Are you cream filled or packed with nuts?

Being a Phone Mistress is Like a Box of Chocolates

You wonder what it is like to be a phone Mistress.  The first thing that came to mind is the box of chocolate analogy.  It is so true.

When the phone rings and I pick up the receiver, I have no idea who is calling me.  Will it be a regular caller whom I have had glorious fun with for the last eight years?  Will it be a new great guy with dirty little secrets to confess?  Or perhaps a sissy who wants to put on a fashion show.

The Variety is Fascinating

One of the reasons I love this work so much is that the variety is nearly endless.  One call I am cracking nuts and laughing with a caller.  The next I am looking at pics of a frilly sissy wearing an assortment of sissy doll dresses and displaying their naughty charms and some hilarious facial expressions.  Then I am directing a humiliation slut to fill a motel tub with whipped cream and get in it.

It is impossible to get bored.  Here I am, sitting in my nicely decorated home office, all comfy.  I might be writing blog posts, such as this one, or responding to messages on our social site, Enchantrix Empire.  Then, the phone rings and I am ready to roll.  Bring it on!

Dressed to Thrill

Once in a while, I just get home from my office, and I have an appointment call.  In that case, I am still wearing business clothing.  Those sexy drawings of me that Dankoo did and are posted on EE and Tumblr come to life.  I have on a form fitting skirt with a kick pleat, a blouse, jacket, stockings, and heels.

But most of the time I am in pajamas.  I believe in dressing sexy for myself.  It feels good.  So when you call, I have on a satin gown with a thigh-high slit and matching robe with feathered slippers.  Or in summer, I wear a short little nighty with matching panties.  Why not?  I am home.  Besides, it puts me in the right mood for naughty calls.

Early Gratitude

A few eager fans sent me early Valentine’s Day gifts.  Thank you!  The pic above is one of those gifts.  The chocolates are amazing and sugar-free.  OMG.  Thank you for that, “M.”  I appreciate the bracelet “J.” It is lovely.  “R,” you made my day with the gift card.  You guys really know how to make me feel special. *hugs*   Did you think I was kidding about thanking you publicly??

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Miss Violet 800-601-6975

Big Buckass Balls

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Miss Violet 800-601-6975

Wild Interesting Times

You know that I like to have fun and laugh in session when it is appropriate.  This leads to some wild and interesting times.  Tonight I had another cam session with my wonderful “M.”  He and I have been talking pretty much since I started at LDW.  A long time!

Our relationship began with his request for me to record a custom erotic audio for him.  His script was filled with sound effects that I was to make.  I remember voicing that first one, making monkey noises and laughing so hard I had to keep stopping and starting the recording.  But I did get through it.  “M” was delighted with it and ordered more audios.  All were wonderfully avant-garde.

Big Buckass Balls

It took a couple of years, but “M” finally set up a call with me.  Hallelujah!  He was even more fun in a session.  We started out with phone sessions.  He introduced me to his horny red pecker and his big buckass balls.  Loved the terms, but loved what he does with them even more.

“M” flops his big horny kielbasa up and down, side to side, and around in circles like a propeller.  Of course, his big buckass balls go along for the ride, jumping up, down, and around until they are so swollen and tight that they cannot move at all.  Though all of this I am laughing and coaxing him to “do it again!”.

Both of us are laughing so hard, and cracking jokes about the situation.  Truly, it is a fantastic time…every time.  This American phone sex Mistress loves it.  Which reminds me…I am not “M’s” Mistress.  We are friends having a sexy time together.  I do that too.  *smile*

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Miss Violet 800-601-6975

Huge Fabulous Mess

For the finale, I make spurting noises as he begins to cum.  “Spurt, spurt, spurt.”  Yes, I am laughing and having to compose myself to get the words and sounds out.  But I do it.  He cums crazy hard and makes a huge fabulous mess.  It is a raucous, hilarious, joyful time.

Do not be afraid to get creative with me.  I am up for something different.  I can be silly with the best of them.  Spicing up masturbation makes it even better.

Just had to share this with you.  Too much fun to keep all to myself.  *smile*


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Miss Violet 800-601-6975

Christmas Southwest Style

Christmas southwest style with Miss Violet 800-601-6975

Miss Violet 800-601-6975

This is How We do it, Baby

In the northeast, Midwest and up north you get plenty of snow.  So you build snowmen.  It is natural.  We do not get much snow here in the southwest, so we work with what we have.  What we have a lot of are tumbleweeds.

The first thing I learned to make was a Christmas tree made of tumbleweeds.  The white tree to the left is made entirely of tumbleweeds.

Holding them together is the trick.

Hold on to Your Hat

There is something else that is traditional over the winter, and that is snowmen.  Remember rolling balls to the right size, stacking them and adding eyes, a nose, and sticks for arms?

Again, since snow is scarce here, we get creative and make them out of…you guessed it…tumbleweeds.

Meet a friend of mine.  I call him Weedy the Tumbleweed Man.  Is there a song for that?

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Ride ‘Em Cowgirl

If you think all of the Christmas fun around here revolves around tumbleweeds, you need to wake up.  This is the wild west baby, and we know how to party.

Last year we had a BDSM Christmas Rodeo.  This is one of my favorite naked games.  It was lifestyle Mistresses and male subs/slaves only.  The subs/slaves had to bring a saddle and pony plug.  Don’t know what that is?  Bend over, and I will show you.  *wink*  It is a butt plug with a ponytail hanging from it.  Adds to the fun.

Giddy Up

Mistresses rode the saddled male subs/slaves around a track, and over hurdles to the enthusiastic cheering of the female spectators.  It was loud, rowdy, and sexy as hell.  The pony boys were de-personalized and loved the humiliation of it.

My long, toned thighs were firmly gripped around my slave boy’s torso.  I used my riding crop on his ass, urging him on to victory.  He was panting, sweating, and fully erect.  The cock ring I had placed on his slave cock and balls helped make them more visible for my friends viewing pleasure.

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Winner’s Circle

The winner of each race received a large basket of toys from a great adult shop in Phoenix, gift certificates for spa services, bottles of champagne, Belgian chocolates, and a glittering rhinestone collar for their sub/slave boy.

I immediately put the midnight blue rhinestone collar I won on my long time houseboy, you know as #1.  He is still wearing it proudly and has been training to race at the next event.

What are the unique Christmas traditions where you live?

You Made Me Smile

Thank you for the gifts, the poems, the songs, the odes, the virtual bouquets, and your lovely emails.  I feel a wave of love washing over me, and it is wonderful!  A special thank you to those who sent me things for my new house.  That was so thoughtful, and I appreciate it.

You deserve a joyous Christmas.  After all, you make me smile and laugh all through the year.  You also show me how special I am to you and it feels so good.

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Sexy Christmas

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Spirit of Christmas

The spirit of Christmas moves me to give you a gift that is sure to result in a sexy Christmas.  After all, you have been such a good guy all year long.  Not perfect, but that is okay.  Perfect is boring.

Now your mind is racing.  What will Miss Violet give me?  Is it a puppy?  Is it her panties?  No and no.  Sorry.

My Gift to You

Actually, there are two gifts.  What?  Yes, you read that right.  The first gift is that sexy snowy pic to your left.  I know you love that.

The other gift took a little time to come up with.  You, being a grown man, can buy yourself most of what you want.  So I focused on giving you something that you do not expect.  Something with a little surprise.

Making it Easy

I do not want you to have to jump through any hoops for your gifts.  That is not what the season is about.  It is about me appreciating you choosing me as your Mistress, girlfriend, counselor, erotic confession therapist, chastity key holder.

Being the intelligent woman I am, I understand that you have many choices.  So thank you for choosing me.  May I say that you evidence excellent taste.  *wink*

Not Playing Favorites

While you are clearly a fan of my main blog, perhaps you are also into eating your cum, or a panty boy, or simply a pervy fetishist.  I love all of that and more.  So I made sure that this gift is fun for you.

You will find your other Christmas gift posted at the bottom of this post.  Easy breezy.  Close your eyes and listen.  Again and again!  You can download it and save it forever if you like.  I give it to you freely because you have made my year more fun, joyous, happy, sexy, naughty, wicked, and delightful.  Thank you!

Sexy Christmas

Click the left end of the bar above to listen to this sexy audio.


Holiday Splosh

Holiday splosh session with Miss Violet 800-601-6975

Miss Violet 800-601-6975

Fun for Every Occasion

The Sploshing fetish involves covering your body with food.  Since I cannot be there in person, in a phone session, this is done by me instructing you precisely what food to put where and how.

For me, it starts with a theme.  For my newest splosh pet, K, I decided on a Thanksgiving theme for our most recent session.  He was provided with shopping lists.

The Shopping Lists

Since K enjoys being cross-dressed for his splosh sessions, I give him a list of clothing items to get.  He is to be wearing these items when we begin our session.  K is not ready to perform on cam, so he sends me photos of the clothing items, usually with him wearing them.

I also give him a list of food items to get.  Because the theme was Thanksgiving, I came up with a list of foods that represent the holiday, provide a fun mix of colors, textures, and temperatures.  He sends me a photo of all of this food opened and ready to use.

It’s Splosh Time

Once we are in session, I have K verify what he is wearing.  Because I will have K shoving food down into those items; stuffing his bra, filling up his pantyhose, cushioning his hiney, and caressing his cock with soft and squishy foods.

Then I look at the array of food items.  I begin with a couple of handfuls of mashed potatoes smeared over his stomach.  Then a handful of stuffing down the front of his panties.  Next is a pour of warm gravy down his ass crack, followed by yams in his slippers.

The Home Stretch

It is not long before K’s clothing is bulging a bit with all of the food I have had him insert, dump, pour, and shove.  He is clearly aroused, and his voice reflects that.  He is panting, and I am laughing.  All of this simply gets K more excited.  He is covered in food.  His clothing is leaking juices, and he is in a state of nirvana.  It was around now that I was inspired to sing “Pour some gravy on me” as I laughingly instructed K where to put a handful of creamed corn.

For our grand finale, I like to have K sit in something big like a double layer chocolate cake with icing; or a cream pie with lots of whipped cream on top.  I have him sit very slowly so he can feel every nuance of that dessert as it compressed under his ass, enveloping his hips and thighs in sugary goodness.  He sighs with pure delight.

Holiday Splosh

There is always something to build a theme around for a fabulous splosh session.  It can be holidays, seasons, and events.  You can celebrate your birthday with something totally new, kinky, and outrageous.  I can think of a fun way to use a candle.  *grin*  A splosh session takes spicing up masturbation to a whole new level.

Calling all splosh fans!  Come to me for over the top sessions.   And if you are reading this and have never tried anything like sploshing, let’s plan a basic session so you can try it out.  If you are into sensation or humiliation, this fetish is natural for you.  If you are just plain kinky, then you owe it to yourself to try holiday splosh.

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Free Phone Domination Calls

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You have been asking when I will be the Featured Mistress.  Well, that day is Thursday, November 16th from 9 pm to 12 am EST.  I will be here rocking the phone lines with erotic, mind-blowing calls.

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3 Girl Calls

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Overachieving Fetishists

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Kinky One-Upmanship

You know the type.  Anything you can do, I can do better.  Sometimes one of these types calls me, and when they do, it always leads to an epic session.  This is true for any fetish.

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Double Mistress Celebration

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Do You Know What is Coming Up?

It very well may be your erection.  I know how your mind works.  But another important occasion is fast approaching.  My annual double celebration.

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Become My CFNM Slave

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Not all CFNM involves blatant humiliation, but I have come to believe that humiliation is involved on some level.  You already know that you love taking all of your clothes off and being naked in front of a fully dressed woman, or group . . . → Read More: Become My CFNM Slave